Life is about the people you meet and the things you create with them

Live your dream and share your passion

When you eat, appreciate every last bite

Some opportunities only come only once-seize them

Laugh everyday

Believe in magic

Love with all your heart

Be true to who you are

Smile often and be grateful

…and finally make every moment count

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Wednesday, December 12, 2012

MY BIRTHDAY WEEK


Birthdays have always been a BIG deal.  It isn’t only a day in the year; it has always been milked the weekend before, birthday week and then the weekend after.  It was always a day to look forward to as my boss used to give us the day off for our birthdays, so it made for a short working week as well which was always welcomed in the month of November when the last public holiday was in August.  I normally also have a BIG party each year, with some form of theme and a chance to get all my friends together rather than for my actual birthday, a great excuse.

This year is a little different. I have had so much on this year, this month and this week that is doesn’t even feel like my birthday tomorrow.  Even today, Monday, has been a crazy up and down day.  I spoke to Zeme this morning, I spoke to a friend in Kenya, I’m thinking about my mum who passed away 4 years ago tomorrow, I got a message from my friend in Ethiopia that is helping with my move and I may have a travel buddy lined up for 3 weeks in January.  All that today and it all got a little emotional for me.  I think you add into the mix that I gave away every single thing I owned and threw out 20 years of memorabilia and I think it has all just caught up with me.  But after a good cry and an early birthday lunch with my best friend the day picked up as birthday messages started to flow in and I pick myself up, dust myself off and look towards the future and many more birthdays to come.

Shelly is looking for present ideas and I just don’t need anything.  She is one of those people that will not let a birthday slide with no presents; it is her specialty, so it will be a total surprise on what I will get from her and the Goddaughters.  Birthday morning was amazing.  Shane had gone to McDonalds to get us breakfast (the GD’s favorite) and I LOVE the frozen cokes from there and ‘that’ was the start of my birthday treats.  I then had a bevy of presents to open including some Pandora charms, 2 Marci ‘friendship’ calendars (if you know of them they are friendship quotes to bring tears) a bottle of Verve, a blue scarf, 3 Pandora beads, my Human Nature ticket and an iTunes gift voucher.  I was very spoilt indeed and then add the birthday cake with sparklers and the ONE candle; it was a beautiful start to the day.  We walked the girls to school and then Shelly had to go to work so I was left to my own devices for the day.  I was okay with this.  I really have lost my mojo to see people.  I had a few options I could have taken up for lunch dates today and I just couldn’t face anyone.  So what is the next best thing?  SHOPPING!!! So after Shelly left at 10am I headed down to the shops and spent a few hours walking around.  I didn’t really need anything, so I bought a few things that I had on my list and 2 Christmas presents and then I was home at 1pm.  The rest of the afternoon was spent returning some long overdue emails and I still have some messages to reply to, but I am making some headway which makes me feel a little better.  I also rang my Nan today- my mums mum.  It has been awhile since I have been in touch and she is no spring chicken anymore.  He is still very active teaching dancing and playing tennis though, so still growing strong.  She is one of those people you just think will be around forever, but not knowing when I will be back, I NEED to see her this trip.  For mum and for myself.  I looked up flights and told her once I have made a booking I would let her know.  I don’t have a lot of spare time, so I’m just going to go for the night, but it is something I wanted to do last time and didn’t, so I will take one night rather than nothing.  Once the little people are home, the dynamic changed, their fresh faces, their perspective on life can do nothing but lift your spirits and it is just what I needed.  After Nana left, I got them showered and dressed for our dinner date tonight at Sizzler. 

This was my choice, I am the birthday girl, and Sizzler has always been one of my favorite places to eat.  Between the cheesy bread, the potato skins and the salad buffet, what is there NOT to love about Sizzler?  The neighbors came with us to dinner and I was blown away when I saw the price of the meals.  Holy smoke I have been noting the rising cost of the KFC and McDonalds meals and I don’t know why I would have thought Sizzler would be any different.  The salad bar was now 24.50AUD… I remember when it used to be 12.95AUD and the meal I wanted with the steak and the BBQ garlic prawns was 44.50AUD!!!  ARE YOU SERIOUS!  But it was my birthday and I thought I would just lash out after all and then it worked out that the Elkins picked up the bill as part of my present, they really are too good to me.  The meal was just as good as we remembered and I even had room for some apple crumble and the ice-cream with sprinkles that Tessie had got for me herself as the birthday girl.  I was feeling better at this stage.  I was surrounded by friends, my god-daughters and had food in my tummy.  I don’t have anything to feel bad about. 

After dinner we headed home and I was on the computer till midnight when Zeme came online.  I messaged him as we have some unfinished business that needed to be sorted out and then before I knew it words were being exchanged and he asked me to call him.  So I did, more words were exchanged verbally and then there was a hang up and then he took me off as a friend on Facebook.  I will not go into details, but let’s just say I have been taken advantage of, I didn’t see it coming and I have learnt a massive lesson the hard way.  I just never thought that Zeme would be that kind of person and as Shelly pointed out after I hung up the phone; it is best I find out his true colours here than once I got to Ethiopia and lose a lot more than I did.  I guess it is now not hard to work out what has happened but it was a crappy way to finish off what had been a nice day.  I just hate the thought that my generosity was abused, I believed in him and what we had and it has just been thrown back in my face.  What a fool I have been-but I will not let it overshadow my day. 

So with all that said, today was significant in so many ways. Not only was I born today but my mum passed away 4 years ago on this day.  It is also special as I embark on an exciting new adventure with my move to Africa in January and who knows where I will be for my next birthday.  And lastly I am asking for birthday donations to a charity I am supporting for clean water to a community in Rwanda. If you can help (any small amount is appreciated) please follow the following link.
http://mycharitywater.org/bernies-odyssey-for-clean-water

If you're like me, you don't spend too much time thinking about water -- it's everywhere we go. When we're thirsty, we flip a handle or push a button. When we're dirty, we twist a shower knob. When our garden needs watering, when our pasta needs to be boiled, when we use the bathroom -- water is just there for the taking.  But for almost 800 million people on the planet, it's not. Millions of women and children have to walk hours each day to get water from muddy ponds and rivers. And much of that water is infested with bacteria, parasites or leeches.  When I learned that an average of $20 can give someone access to clean, safe water, I decided to start a campaign to help. My goal is to raise $5000.00 charity: water will use 100% of the money to directly fund the water projects in the field. Even better, when the projects are complete, they'll show me just where our money went. That's right -- we'll be able to see the GPS coordinates photos and other details about the community we've impacted!
I've never actually been dying of thirst. I'm sure we'd all like to see a world where no one does. 
Together, we can make a difference in the global water crisis. I hope you'll consider helping.

Nanny Juane kicked in on Wednesday with me taking the girls to school SOLO.  I am confident now in the routine, and Shelly has all the girls lunches and uniforms ready to go, so really isn’t a big deal, for parent, but as a god mother I take this responsibility very seriously and I have to say I LOVE taking them.  As the world would turn, I ran into a lady that I used to play squash with years and years ago, Denise.  She was dropping her grand kids off to school and after a very brief chat and a wave I had completed another successful school drop. 

The rest of the week ebbed and flowed with a large ‘birthday’ purchase of a new laptop.  My small one I have travelled with for the last 20 months has been a gem, but knowing the laptops in Africa are expensive, I decided to get a new one for myself-happy birthday.  I couldn’t see one as cheap as I had bought 2.5 years ago, but I did go for a larger notebook this time and I will take my small travel netbook with me as well as a backup.  By the time you add on the new case, Windows Office and the additional warranty (that I declined) the cheaper computers don’t work out that cheap, but I know I get my money’s worth and now I just have to learn what all the fuss is about with the running platform using Windows 8. I will also need to transfer my ITunes library, which is always a challenge when it is on another computer, so I will have to work that out in the following weeks.  It’s nice to have a keyboard where I can see the letters-my travel laptop’s letters had rubbed off and I have sticker spots with Nikko pen written on them of the missing letters that will last approximately 2 months before they have to be replaced.  Happy Birthday to me.

So I had a great day with my Elkin family and it was a shame that it ended on bad terms with nasty words from Ethiopia.  But I can hold my head high and I think it is a good thing that Zeme has taken me off Facebook as I can now start a fresh and have cleansed the bad people out if my life. 

I wonder where I will be for my next birthday xx


Tuesday, December 11, 2012

I OPENED PANDORA’S BOX AND WHAT A JOB IT WAS


Today was D-Day.  I was opening Pandora’s Box-literally a whole shipping container of everything I own in the world.  My belongings, my memories and my stuff that has been stored for the last 2.5 years.  I have been racking my brains the last few days on what I exactly had in the container and I wish I had of made a bit more of a comprehensive list as I have no idea on what is in there.  Most of the big furniture I can remember, but how many boxes and what is in them is a little hazy, I just know there was a lot and in there I will find 50 bottles of vodka, 3 boxes of Elmo and 2 boxes of Tupperware everything else will be a surprise.  The shipping container people did an inventory on the all the stuff loaded, but big beefy men moving boxes in the heat of September ( I remember it was hot) I thin]k there care factor was non-existent and add in a copy in triplicate as well, there really wasn’t much for me to go on.  So with some masking tape in hand, a Nikko pen, a bottle of water and my IPod I drove the 20 minutes to the depot to start what I was expecting to be a tough and emotional 3 days.    

When I arrived at the depot, I parked out the front and it was weird as I had butterflies in my tummy.  You would think I was going for a job interview, but I think it was more stress than anything else as I was only given 3 days to clear out every single thing I own and either find a new home for it, try and sell it or throw it away.  I was also expecting to meet ‘the cow’ that I have been dealing with for the past 2 years, but lucky for both of us, she wasn’t working today and I pushed a bell and a guy came to the counter.  Thankfully they knew I was coming, so they told me to wait a few minutes as they got my container down for me and when it was ready they came back into the office to get me, gave me a fluro safety vest I had to wear while I was out there and the doors were opened.  Now I am not sure what I was thinking by not bringing someone with me to help move the big stuff and I was super lucky that they guy who showed me to my container was very nice and he said he wasn’t busy and that he could help me out till he was needed back in the depot otherwise I am not sure I would have been able to move everything on my own, and I would have tried and I probably would have done myself some damage.  So for the next 3 hours, we moved boxes out, to get to the large furniture items that were spread throughout the container so when Tat (my new mate) had to go back to ‘proper’ work I would be able to amble my way through the stuff without needing any more man power.  After the first hour he went and checked with his boss that he could help me and the boss said no worries and that they would charge $50 bucks, which I grateful for-I needed the help. 

As the big items came out of the container and I saw just how much stuff I had was overwhelming to say the least and the last thing I wanted to do was have to move all the things out, to move them all back in, to move it all to the other storage place to try and sell it and then get it moved to the Elks for the pickup once I had sold it.  This job was MASSIVE enough as it was, so as my stuff came out I told Tat that he was more than welcome to anything that was coming out.  Take it; I was going to give it all away anyway, so it may as well go to the guys that were helping me.  So there became ‘piles’ of things as the morning went on.  There was Tats pile, the throw away pile, the pile that was going to get collected tomorrow to the new storage place, the pile where I was going to take back to the Elkins and the last pile was a last minute addition as Sandy had text me during the morning to say that I was more than welcome to bring stuff to her house for her to try and sell at her garage sale on Saturday morning.  So the piles grew, Tats more than anyone’s and word had spread about me giving things away and we had visits from about 6 other guys that were all working on site.  So Tat got first dibs and then the stuff that he didn’t want was going into the collection pile for tomorrow.  As Tat realized what was coming out, he decided to make life a little easier and got an empty shipping container and set that up opposite my container and we were able to move stuff for collection straight into that one, so we didn’t have to double handle it all this afternoon to get it all back in my container.  That way, in the morning, when the other storage people came, everything in the second container was to go with them.  What a great idea.  By lunch time 80% of the furniture had been given away.  My mums stuff was still all there but I now knew that it all had to go and that included her things as well.  It is a shame as there was a wing chair of hers that I got reupholstered after her death, but it had to go and Tat was more than happy to take that off my hands.  The good thing was he was so thankful for all the stuff he was getting and one of the other guys said that there aren’t many people like me in the world and that I must be a very generous person.            

So Tat took his stuff away on a trolley at lunch time as he had to get back to work, but if I needed anything to come in and grab any of the guys, they would be more than happy to help me and I in turn told Tat to send the guys out and have a look and if they wanted anything it was theirs.  The container was now 90% empty and I had stuff everywhere.  The throw pile was =starting to grow and I will have to get a skip organized for Friday to come and take it all away for me.  By the end of the 3 days there would be too much for me to take to the tip on my own.  I got asked by all the guys by the end of the day why I was getting rid of everything and when I told them I was moving to Africa they were shocked and impressed all at the same time.  As my belongings started to get carried away I was feeling okay about it all.  It all feels right, that this is what I should be doing and it really is the final step to cleansing myself from Australia and making my move to Africa more real. 

So the afternoon wore on and this was a lot more emotional for me as I was now getting into personal items.  Diaries I had written when I was 14, 20+ squash trophies that I won through my junior squash career, my wedding dress, wedding photos, my mums 1964 school certificates and her work certificates, my report cards, my old sticker collection that I’ve had since I was 8 years old and that is just the cream so far.  What would I do with them all?  When was the last time I looked at this stuff?  I got given some stern advice from Shelly that I had to be ‘Ruthless’ (Iike the Ruth-which was my mums name) of the word, and yes she agreed that things may have sentimental value, but when was the last time I looked at any of the stuff I have hoarded over the last 20 years and with my move now to Africa why pay money to keep the stuff that I will never really look at again.  What use will my 10th birthday cards be to me in Africa?  I see her point.  So with that advice in mind, I opened boxed-checked what was in there, worked out what pile it should go into and then moved onto the next box.  My DVD collection of over 1100 was a tough give away and also the Wii was something I had totally forgotten about. 

Later in the afternoon I was happy with the progress I had made and my mums dresser and cabinets got snatched up, so I told him he had to make sure he would look after it as it had belonged to my mum and it was more gear that I didn’t have to worry about.  I also found boxes of travel knick knacks collected from all my overseas trips dating back over 15 years.  When I first started travelling I was buying a lot of the small crappy stuff, so it was time to part with that and half of it was throw out.  I kept some things and the rest I put into a box that I would take to Sandy’s.  You never know what would sell as the saying goes some-one’s trash is some-one else’s treasure, but I did draw the lone at some tacky stuff and tossed it.  I ended up with a half packing box of things that will eventually make it to Africa, but maybe not on this trip.        

The time consuming things was I had to unwrap a lot of things to see what was in there.  The boxes were labeled pretty well, so I had an idea on what would be in there.  Some boxes I gave a quick run over and then deemed where it should go.  So I am sure that there will be things that I didn’t even see that were thrown out, but what I don’t know won’t kill me right.  I did make a concerted effort to check the entire bar marked boxes, as I knew I had over 50 bottles of vodka lurking in them.  I wasn’t going to be giving any of that away and I backed up the car and started loading the alcohol to take to Shelly and Shane’s.  I thought I had checked the bar boxes well but in the afternoon when I started to pack it all in for the day some of the guys were looking through my ‘rubbish’ pile and found new 1.25L bottles of Makers Mark and Bacardi.  I did feel bad but asked if I could have it back and they were given without any qualms. I felt like an Indian giver to an extent as they were in the ‘throw’ pile-but I couldn’t let those through, could I.  I probably need to explain the ‘throw’ pile was like a 2nd hand shop.  There wasn’t rubbish as such, there were glasses, pillows, bar items like coasters, pictures, frames-it was all perfectly good stuff, but things I didn’t/couldn’t use/need and had to go somewhere.  My squash racquets and bag got snapped up and my book cases (all 7 of them) also found a home in the afternoon.  At 3.30pm I started to repack all the stuff back into the container, I was told I couldn’t leave it out overnight and with sore feet that concluded my first day in the container.  I didn’t realize till I got home at 4.30pm that I hadn’t eaten a thing all day and I really didn’t feel like it either.  I can’t tell you how good it feels to finally have this process in place and even though tomorrow will be harder as I have boxes  and albums of photos to go through, I rekon I am 40% done-which is amazing.   

Day 2 dawned at 6am and I was on the road at 6.20am.  I stopped at Macca’s for breakfast and arrived at the depot at 6.45am to try and get a start on the last 6 boxes before the other removalists arrived.  There were some boxes that I had just put in the ‘pick-up’ pile that I didn’t really know what was in them, and I figured I could just open them in a month’s time, after I had finished round one and had a bit of a break.  The removalists were on time and as everything was all packed and ready to go in the second container, as I was paying them by the hour they were gone by 8am.  Awesome.  Not empty handed I have to say, they got given some bar posters, glasses and a few bits and bobs including 2 signed racing photos from the bar.  Last of the big items was taken this morning from one of the depot workers so I was left with a couch, a sun chair, 2 small bed side tables and a small table.  Not bad, not bad at all.  I worked like a dog for the rest of the morning, going through more boxes than having to move boxes today.  The biggest job today was going through 4 big packing boxes full of photo albums.  There would have been 18 of them.  There was nothing with the actual albums and I could have emptied them and sold the albums, but who could be bothered taking out thousands of photos to make 3 bucks, but I did make a concerted effort to flip every single page and take a few photos from each album, so I took the time to look through them and took a few select ones to keep and the rest got thrown out.  I’m talking personal photos, past holiday snaps and photos that were pre-digital.  I also found the box that had all the negatives of all the photos and I just threw them out as well.    

I came across a box of mum’s things that contained old newspapers, certificates and personal items.  If I’m not keeping my own certificates then I can’t really keep hers.  I kept a few of the framed ones which I took them out of the frame and some of her private items and the rest joined my stuff on the ‘throw’ pile.  I had a box of all my travel documents, tickets, maps and merchandise that had been collected and saved from every single trip I had done.  I had over 30 travel wallets (one for each trip) and with a quick peek into them they also joined the rubbish pile.  Speaking of which, the rubbish pile was starting to grow.  I made a few phone calls about getting a skip delivered tomorrow-as it was my last day and I was looking at a cost of around 300 bucks and it didn’t seem an issue to get one tomorrow.  The last big things I needed to go through were 2 boxes of shoes, a box of bags, 3 boxes of clothes and 2 boxes of sheets towels etc.  Day 2 was coming to a close, it was nearly 2pm and I was tired and my feet were killing me, so with Tat coming round to see if I was okay, I offered him the box of bags and shoes to him as his wife is a bit of a shoe and bag lady-which he took.  I didn’t look through those boxes properly so Tat said if there is anything that looks personal in the boxes he would bring them back tomorrow.  Fine-I was over it by this stage.  Then the sheets and towels and clothes I would deliver tomorrow to Vinnie’s.

The find of the day was some 2AUD old notes that I had kept from my banking days.  I had 7 notes in mint condition and they were in consecutive order.  Maybe in 100 years they will hold some value and I definitely kept them.  I also had 5, 10 and 20AUD notes somewhere, but I didn’t find them in my unpacking and checking, so I obviously missed them somewhere and have been delivered to the Brisbane tip.  Shelly will be helping me tomorrow to move the last of the things to Sandy’s and to help fill the skip and then I am finished.  Done.  I think I am now grateful that I only had 3 days as I had to be on a mission, I couldn’t dilly dally and walk down memory lane too long and just get the job done without having to drag it out.    

So I left with 2 small boxes of bits and bobs I was going to keep, a box of photos and some more travel knick knacks.  I also kept some things for Shelly, like the guillotine, name labeler, my Brisbane Lions framed poster and such things and it was tough to not keep a lot of things for the god-daughters.  My plate collection was one thing I did keep and I also kept my crystal collection which I will let the god daughters have.  I also saved the Walt Disney DVD pack that I had bought years ago in Vietnam.  It was a box set of every single Walt Disney movie made currently up to Stuart Little 1 and 2.  The girls will love that present.  I also had more boxes of grog and when I got home I unpacked the 10 boxes that I now had full of alcohol.  I am trying to keep all the rubbish and my gear clear here at the Elks.  It is a massive job and after they were all unpacked I had 55 bottles of vodka, random bottles of various other spirits, some rather old bottles of cheap wine from 1998 (which have been thrown out) and a few bottles of champagne which optimistically we have put in the fridge to see if they are drinkable and to think I bought a bottle of vodka duty free 5 days ago.  Needless to say the Elkin bar is now looking quite impressive-anyone want a drink?

Day 3 of the container and I was in good stead.  After dropping the girls off at school, we headed to the container to load both cars up with the stuff that we were taking to Sandy’s to sell at her garage sale tomorrow morning which then left me with 6 final boxes to come back for in the afternoon to drop at Vinnie’s.  This is all I had left from a 3 bedroom house full of stuff.  The skip was delivered at 10am, the guy was super nice and as the pile was all ready to go, he helped us load it all up, taking a few things for himself as we loaded it and an hour later he was gone along with my ‘rubbish’ pile and it was hard to imagine what it all looked like here only 2 days before.  I WAS FINISHED.  I do have to give myself a pat on the back.  It was a massive undertaking, something I had to do and now that it was all finished I feel like a dead weight has been lifted from my shoulders.  I will now have an extra 300AUD a month in the bank and besides my friends now, I have no ties left here in Australia.  How sad and exciting all in the same thought.         

So I have a 3 week grace period till I get the last of my belongings delivered to the Elkins on the 14th December.  I think most of it is Elmo’s, Tupperware and more grog and all of that will I will be taking to Africa (not the alcohol) and will be sent on once I have my feet on the ground over there.  It will be nice to have a small break before tackling the last of it all but knowing that 97%  is done is AWESOME and I can now enjoy my last few weeks stress free and not having to worry about what I am going to do with all my stuff as it is now all GONE.  I am one step closer to starting a new life and I have just totally cleansed the old one and as sad as I felt yesterday when I was dealing more with personal items –it is time to make new memories.  I have 3 boxes from a whole shipping container and this I am content with. 


Monday, December 10, 2012

IM HOME-IT’S NEVER LONG ENOUGH


WEATHER: Summer-30C  

So I’m home and it feels FABULOUS.  

It doesn’t matter how long I am home for it is never long enough.  I had 7.5 weeks in July and I now have 5 weeks this trip and time will just pass so quickly.  I know this, and I rekon I could have 10 weeks and it still wouldn’t be enough. 

I hit the ground running after I landed in Brisbane.  It was all perfect timing, as I exited the terminal to wait for Shelly to pick me up, she arrived with Zoe.  We were all as excited as each other.  They were coming from ice skating, so Tess was at home and just to see their smiling faces was like a breath of fresh air for me and not that I wanted to start thinking about it now, but it is going to be tough to leave this time round, especially as I really have no idea on when I will be back.  I will definitely be home next year, but when is a good question and it really is the first time that I don’t have ticket back to Australia-scary much?

The airport is only 15 minutes from the Elkins and as we drove in the drive way, the heavens opened and a massive storm struck Brisbane.  That explains the poor visibility as we flew in over the city and I am just glad that we weren’t flying in it, as it was a doozy with the rain coming down horizontal and very windy.  I am sure it would have had an impact on us landing if we were 45 minutes later in arriving.  I had an hour to refresh up before we were back in the car and heading to Hadley’s birthday party’.  It is always a surprise on what clothes I can find in the drawers, what things I have packed in drawers and what personal items I have again.  It was nice to have a bevy of clothes to choose from and after unpacking the monster and a quick shower we were off again.  Hadley’s party was a great opportunity to catch up with a bunch of people at the one spot.  I wasn’t feeling too bad considering that I had been on the go for the last 17 hours. 

From here we then had to get the god-daughters to their dance concert at Redcliff that they train for all year.  I have told the girls this is the main reason for me coming home a week earlier; just to earn some brownie points along the way with the girls.  I haven’t seen them dance for 2 years now but as the concert runs over week-end, we were dropping them today and then we had tickets to see them dance tomorrow morning.  We had 2 hours to fill while they were dancing, so we walked across the road to the RSL and had a few drinks and a punt at the TAB which is always great time filler.  Picking up the girls we were home by 7pm with dinner in hand.  My first meal back and we had decided to have Red Rooster and this is one of my ‘foods’ I miss when I am travelling.           

Sunday was the concert again for the girls and we were on the road at 9.30am.  Zoe was in 3 dances and Tess was in 2 and they were cute as buttons.  We had to sit through the first half of the concert and saw them dance twice and then after the break I watched their last dance, which they were both in and shortly after they had performed I got a lift home with the neighbors as there was still the afternoon concert to go and finally my jetlag was catching up with me.

Monday was spent going through the bags that I had packed in preparation for my trip to Ethiopia in September before it was cancelled a week before I was due to leave.  I literally had forgotten what was in there, so I needed to take stock, work out what else I needed and also thought about the amount of clothes that I had.  I had far too many.  I would really like to get the clothes packed into 2 suitcases at most, so I also went through the clothes I had and anything that didn’t fit, or look the Africa part and they will be given to Vinnie’s.  I also need to keep in mind having ‘office’ clothes as I just don’t know what type of work I will be doing in Africa, so with this in mind I culled another round of clothes.  I also hit the wardrobe while I was on a roll and I have 2 bags of clothes for Beth that I will take when I catch up with them for lunch.  Some of them still have tags on them, so there is nothing wrong with them, I just don’t deem them as Africa appropriate and I need to get into the swing of getting rid of things as I have to make a date to get my shipping container out, hopefully this week, and go through all my belongings that have been locked up for the last 2.5 years.  I have emailed Minalu and asked if there are things that I should bring with me, things that are hard to get or cheaper to bring with me, so I am waiting back on a response from him at this point.  So with a list now in hand on what I do have-I am now making a list of things that I will need to get.  Things like and extension cord, a power board-as all my electrical gadgets have Australian plugs, wall hooks and I am also thinking of buying a bread maker, a jaffel maker and maybe a grill plate.  You may or may not be able to get those things in Ethiopia, but at least I will be able to cook something from day one when I arrive.  I also went through my souvenir box and I have managed to fit 90% of them into a suitcase, so I am going to take them all with me.  It is funny that I have some African pieces and pictures and they will be heading back to the motherland.  Africa-Australia-Africa.    

I phoned the shipping container people on Monday to organize getting into my container.  I wasn’t sure how much time they needed, and for me the sooner the better, so I can get it all done and dusted and enjoy my weeks at home without having that hanging over my head.  I just know what a massive job it was going to be and if I didn’t get onto it, it would just fester, time would tick and I could be stuck with the container after I leave.  THAT I definitely do NOT want to happen.  So I phoned and the lady I have been dealing with for the whole 2.5 years is really not that nice.  We always clash and I dint find her very helpful at all.  So when I spoke to her and explained my situation I was after some thoughts from her on what would be the best way to gain access to my container for a week.  They were unable to deliver the container to the house and then come back for it as their trucks don’t have swing lifts.  She mentioned I could have access at the depot, for the day, and when I said I would need more than one day to go through all my things, she said she would have to talk to the boss and get back to me.  Her last comment before we hung up the phone was that if I am giving it all away, why don’t I just toss it all out at the dump.  She really was rude and I told her they were my belongings and I needed to go through them all first and that wasn’t a very nice suggestion at all.  Stupid cow.  How about we throw out all ‘your’ stuff…… would you like that?  Stupid cow.  Well I got a phone call back and I was able to get access for 3 days from Wednesday.  Well I had to take it and just hope that 3 days would be enough time.  Already, just booking it in and having a start day has relieved my stress my 20%-I was on my way and this was the last massive hurdle that I had to jump as closure of my life here in Australia.  Based on the 3 days, I knew I wouldn’t be able to sell/give away all the furniture in that time so I contacted a storage place that handles storage modules.  So I figured, I could get the modules, pack in my furniture and other bits and bobs, get it stored and then that would give me a chance to put in EBay, sell it, and then get it all delivered on a certain day and get it all collected.  I am still not sold on the EBay option, it would be less hassle to just get rid of it all rather than trying to make a few bucks, but people keep telling me to try and sell it, so I will give it a go and see how it pans out and worse-case scenario I will just pop it all out on the street and put up a sign telling people to help themselves.      

So I’m home and it feels great to be surrounded by friends again……
The clock is tick tick ticking……


Friday, December 7, 2012

THE EAGLE HAS LANDED-IM HOME


WEATHER: Freak storm 45 minutes after landing otherwise its summer and 30C

HIGHLIGHT OF THE DAY: Touchdown in Brisbane

BUMMER OF THE DAY: Touching down in Brisbane 3 hours late

WORD OF THE DAY: HOME

DISTANCE TRAVELLED: 6158km

So I went to bed at 2.30am this morning and as I had paid for my breakfast when I checked in at midnight, I HAD to get up this morning to go, otherwise it would be a total waste.  The breakfast service closed at 10.30am, so I set my alarm for 9am, dragged myself out of bed, showered and made it down to the restaurant with 45 minutes to eat all I could.  I did well and I gave the Asian section a good crack with the mini dim sums and steam rolls-I love those things.  It was a great looking buffet I have to say, but I am not one to gorge, so I ate what I wanted with a cup of tea and then on my way back to the room I stopped to have a look at the pool area and it was amazing.  There was a wooden boardwalk around the pool, with fountains and trees in the middle of the pool.  There were sun lounges and a great view of the tower, which was pretty cool to see in itself, to think we were that close to the airport.

I switched the ‘do not disturb’ light when I got back to my room and then I spent the rest of the morning blogging and uploading photos and watching movies on TV.  I had paid for a late checkout, so I didn’t have to be out of my room till 6pm, which was perfect as my flight was at 9.25pm and it is still hard to believe that I WILL BE HOME TOMORROW.  It still hasn’t sunk in yet-but I am super excited to see Shelly and the girls and from the text messages that are flying around they are just as excited to see me.  The god-daughters have a dance concert on this weekend, so I will hit the ground running tomorrow with a drop off for the first concert and then a ticket for the second concert on Sunday.  I have earnt some brownie points with the girls telling them that I had come home early especially to see them dance in their concert.  They had been told that Zeme and I had broken up so I am expecting a barrage of questions as only children can ask and I need to work on a way to tell them that things just didn’t work out.  I’ll think about that later, I can’t be bothered at the moment rehashing ‘that’ saga and overshadowing my happy impending return home.  With room service for lunch and another movie I showered and was ready at 6.15pm.  I figured I would push the check-out boundary by 15 minutes, what will they do; charge me for the 15 minutes?  I had made sure yesterday when I packed the monster that I had kept out a change of clothes and underwear into my day backpack so I wouldn’t have to open the monster till I got home.  See I am a smart cookie, but that also meant that the sucker still weighed 26.4kg and I had one more check-in to go.  Qantas can be hit and miss at the best of times whether you get charged excess or not, so I just hoped that I would get some-one nice and they wouldn’t charge me.  

As the bell boy had bought my bag up on a hotel trolley, I had to heft that thing onto my back to get it downstairs to reception to checkout.  I kept the thing on my back as I paid the bill and the reception guy asked if I wanted an airport trolley, oh yes please that would be fantastic.  It was great that I could walk out of the hotel and find myself smack bang in the middle of T3-LOVE it as I had to make my way from terminal 3 to terminal 1 which is done via the airtrain and takes 5 minutes.  The system is so easy here, I love Singapore Changi and it is just as well as I have passed through here 9 times in the last 9 weeks!  I entered T1 and as I walked past the first set of departure boards I found my flight and the counter that I had to get to for check-in, when I saw the second set of departure boards I saw that the word ‘retimed’ was next to my flight number and when I looked at the new departure time to was for 3 hours later!  Oh no….. Are you kidding?  I probably could have extended my room for another few hours, now I have an additional 3 hours plus the 3 hours I had given myself for check-in. Ugh.  It was going to be a long day.  The Qantas check-in area was a shambles.  There were people in groups sitting on the floor, there was no roped section for a check-in line, you just picked a hind leg line and side step people and trolleys as they came and went.  I jumped queue twice as people were just all over the place and when it was finally my turn with a smile on my dial I dropped my bag on the scales and asked why the flight had been retimed.  Firstly I was hoping to keep her busy as to not notice the weight of my bag and secondly, if the flight was delayed 3 hours I was hoping that they would let my bag slide as a small compensation.  As it worked out there was an issue with our aircraft and they were getting a new one from Sydney and when I asked when they found out-did they try and notify passengers, she said it was all very last minute.  I think it certainly worked in my favor and my 26.4kg bag was checked through without a second glance.  My chick was tough, but I liked her once my bag was sent down the conveyor belt, with a small kick from her as it got stuck.  My next issue was a window seat and they were all gone!  But she said let me go and check something and she left the counter, so with fingers crossed and a held breath I waited for her to come back and she said she could give me one, tapped a few times on the computer and said that’s strange, disappeared again and then came back and with a small smile said she had found me another one.  I wasn’t going to ask what happened with the first one, as long as I had a window, my monster was checked at no cost I wasn’t going to argue.  Then for the good news, I was also given a food voucher of 20SGD for me to have dinner on Qantas due to the delay.  Why thank-you Qantas.  This was probably the biggest delay I have had all trip and yesterday was the most I had paid for excess baggage.  Talk about a patch of bad luck finishing with a small silver lining.  I was just happy to get rid of the monster-all done and dusted now till Brisbane.                  

Once I had passed through security (no scan) and customs, the first thing I needed to do was to let Shelly know I was now arriving at 10am and not at 6.40am.  I shot off a text message and wouldn’t feel comfortable until she replied with am ok.  I would hate for her to get up at 6am, get to the airport to find out I wasn’t now coming till 3.5 hours later.  So with the message sent, I decided to make a stop at the Pandora shop one last time JUST FOR A LOOK and yes I ended up leaving with One charm, which for me is a feat in itself, ONE.  I was happy with that and then it was time to buy a drink and find somewhere to sit  as I had 4.5 hours to wile away before heading to my gate.  Singapore Changi is great for finding areas that are set up for people to rest and wait and I went to one of the food courts and found a massive lounge area that was spread around some food outlets and because they offer these type of areas all over the airport, they never seem super crowded.  Before setting up all my crap, I checked my internet on one of the free computers, I went and bought a soft drink and then set myself up in 2 lounge chairs.  My laptop came out, my IPod was plugged in, my Blackberry was at hand so I could keep an eye on a return message from Shelly Belly and there I sat for 3 hours, happy as Larry, typing and people watching.  There was an oriental restaurant, Asian House, that I could see people coming and going out of there and the smell that was emanating from the restaurant was too much to pass up and decided to abandon the thought of using my voucher for some drumettes at Burger King and to have something different for a change, I mean I wasn’t paying for it anyway right! 

This restaurant was set up for the traveler.  The staff were switched on, there seemed to be an urgency with the way they served you which was good in a way, but also a little disconcerting.  I showed my Qantas voucher straight up as I wanted to make sure they knew I had one so there wouldn’t be any problems when I went to pay, a lot of people don’t like vouchers, but my waitress seemed to be okay with it and left me with a rather large menu.  It is amazing how far 20SGD goes and after looking at the menu looking at what I could have to the cost of the voucher, as I just had to spend every cent, I ended up ordering an entrée and a main and I got a coke and all I had to pay was 1.53SGD as I hadn't calculated in the tip.  I think I could handle that.  After placing my order my entrée was at the table within 10 minutes, maybe even less and then my main meal came out probably 10 minutes after that, even though I had not yet finished my entrée.  I told you they were in a snazz.  It was one of those places you could see the chefs in the kitchen and they looked as busy in there as the wait staff out the front.  I guess they just think that everyone has a plane to catch-literally and they just pump people through.  I wasn’t on such a rush and I even got asked if I wanted to pay the 1.53 as I was about to put a mouthful of food in my mouth.  I did ask if it was okay to finish my meal first and she nodded her head and I was allowed to finish my meal in peace.  I heard back from Shelly, so she knew of my new arrival time-so I felt much better that I had got through to her.  My small backpack had to be moved as some people arrived at the table next to me and the waiter guy picked up my bag to move it onto the chair opposite me and asked what I had in my bag?  Gold?  I know it weighs a ton and I still say that it has to be over 10kg in there.  So on that note after paying my massive bill, I walked out of the restaurant and found one of the small hand luggage trolleys and dumped my 22kg of bags onto it to give myself a break from carrying them as I went for a final walk around the shops  before heading to my gate.  I found some funky looking elephant statues in one of the gift shops, but firstly I had no room to carry them, secondly they weren’t cheap and thirdly I think I need to re-asses what travel ornaments I have at home before I go and purchase more.  The beauty is I am back through here in 5 weeks, so if I still do like them, maybe I will get them on my way back through.  They are handmade, hand painted and some of the proceeds go towards a woman’s co-op in Singapore.  Maybe next time.  I did buy some stickers for my diary and also a beautiful blue china necklace though and then it was time to make my way to my gate.

I checked my internet again at the hundreds of computers they have around the airport, nothing had changed, but just because I could, I did.  When I got to my gate it wasn’t open yet and most of the seats outside the gate were taken, so I found a spot at the end of the gate area, leaned up against the wall and pulled out my IPad and played solitaire.  There are a few ways to gain free internet/Wi-Fi at Changi International Airport.  There are the free internet stations located around the airport that are on a 15 minute timer.  If there is no one waiting behind you and you needed more than 15 minutes you just re-log on again-easy.  You can get Wi-Fi codes from the information counters located throughout the airport-you just need to show your passport to get them and the last way is they are starting to introduce free Wi-Fi at the gates where you don’t need to get the code from the info desks.  As I was leaning against the glass wall of our departure gate, I was within reach of the gates free Wi-Fi and was able to surf the internet for another hour when the gate finally opened.  As the aircraft was late coming in-there were a lot of transfer passengers for other flights and there would have been 10 airport staff, all ladies waiting for people with flight numbers and destinations on A4 pieces of paper.  There would have been 4 golf carts also waiting and it was cool to see them all bantering with each other while they were off the clock until the first passengers came off.  It’s funny to see what people look like after an 8 hour flight and to see what people actually wear on a flight.  It was pretty cool to see them all walk past me, like I was in some travel fashion show.  Some people looked great, others tired and majority of people were unsure where to go once they came out of the aerobridge.  I love people watching.  So knowing that our plane was finally here was a great sign and I will be glad once we are in the air to be sure that I was finally on my way.  Not that it means anything, even after you take off.  I have 2 friends that work for United Airlines and they took off from Chicago for London and after 2 hours they had to turn around due to a mechanical fault-now that would be pretty sucky.

So my gate opened at 11.25pm.  We boarded at 12.30am and we were in the air at 1.15pm.  My check-in chick had me sitting in the 3rd last row of the aircraft which I am okay with, I am one of those people that is superstitious or thinks there is a better part of the plane than another, but in saying that I was sitting in a row that had only 2 seats of a 3x4x3 configured aircraft.  The 2 seats option is great but in those particular seats you are not directly against the side of the plane.  There is a gap of around 30cm.  So I wasn’t able to rest my head against the window to get some sleep.  This was a bummer, but I still had a window, so I wasn’t going to complain.  It also didn’t take long to wait to find out if I was going to have the seat next to me free, my seat buddy turned up early, so at least that put me out of my misery.  We were on a 747-400 and it looked like a new plane.  I checked out the entertainment options and they had Magic Mike on the movie channel and they also had 18 hours of Modern Family.  I was SO tired, but I would have to watch a few episodes of that before I went to sleep. 

After takeoff my seat buddy was all over the seating and there was a spare seat across the aisle and he jumped ship to then give me the 2 seats to myself for the next 7 hours.  You beauty and thank-you travel gods for finally coming through for me one last time, on my last flight on my World Odyssey.  The one annoying thing about the touch screens they have on the newer aircrafts is if some-one has a heavy hand while pushing the screen you can feel it in your seat and it can become really annoying.  You just hope that they quickly find a movie so that they leave the screen alone and in turn don’t piss you off any further.  Dinner was served at 2.45am, so I watched 4 episodes of Modern family and as soon as the trays were taken away, the lights switched off and the plane was put to bed for the rest of the trip.  I was tired, so this suite me to a tea and I slept like a baby for 3 hours till the plane was woken up for a crappy breakfast of yoghurt, croissant and an orange juice.  I don’t eat the first 2, so the Hostee was happy to give me the juice and I really wasn’t hungry after all the food I had consumed in the last 24 hours anyway.  From here it was just a waiting game, and I could stop checking the flight plan and seeing how many minutes we had left till we landed.  I couldn’t believe I was only 15 minutes from being home. HOME…….ahhh HOME.  I was lucky, 90% of my flights I have ever done arriving back into Brisbane come in over Moreton Island but this morning we came in over the city.  It was a shame the weather was on the crappy side, it was cloudy and looked like it was raining, so not the greatest for photo opportunities but what a great way to arrive back into Brisbane over the city, seeing the Brisbane River and The Gabba.  I was home.

We arrived at 9.40am and as I was in the 3rd last row of the plane, there was no rush for me to get off.  Shelly was picking me up between the girls ice-skating class and dancing lessons and we were aiming for a 10.30am pickup and I think we were going to be pretty close to that.  We seemed to be the only flight in so that was the good news about coming in at the time we had rather than the 6.40am when up to 5 other planes all arrive in at the same time and customs and immigration is a nightmare.  Well not this morning.  Even though all hands were full, I managed to stop via the duty free shop and purchase a bottle of bourbon for the Elks and a bottle of vodka for me, not knowing still 100% I was doing with my shipping container that has 60 vodka bottles in it, but I thought it was better to be safe than sorry.  I have the chip in my passport, so I was able to go through the self-immigration kiosks, got my free trolley, snuck in a sneaky text message to Shelly (you’re not allowed to use your mobile phones in the baggage area-it is a 1000AUD fine) and then waited, and waited and waited for our bags to come out.  It took 35 minutes for my bag to finally pop out and after getting the wave into the bag check line, I had circled that I had wood items, I showed my Buddha head that was easily accessible in my backpack and I was waved through to the exit.  WELCOME TO BRISBANE.

I was HOME and it felt great.  I am back for nearly 5 weeks and I was looking forward to each and every minute I have here. 

The eagle has landed-I WAS HOME. 


Wednesday, December 5, 2012

MY JOURNEY HOME BEGINS




WEATHER: Cold in Kathmandu 5C-Hot in Singapore and 28C at midnight……

HIGHLIGHT OF THE DAY: I’m on my way home

BUMMER OF THE DAY: Slugged for excess baggage

WORD OF THE DAY:  I’M COMING HOME

DISTANCE TRAVELLED: 3554km

I’M COMING HOME-I’M COMING HOME-TELL THE WORLD I’M COMING HOME.
I start my journey home today-really it is for the second time.  I never thought in my wildest dreams that I would have extended my World Odyssey after my first return, but things happen and plans change that are out of your control and you need to adjust, re-plan and then continue forward.  I would not wish to CHANGE a thing that has happened the last 4 months- and the cliché saying of all things happen for a reason is so true.  I would not have travelled to Sri Lanka, met my awesome group, been introduced to Buddhism, attended a friend’s wedding in Phuket, visited the Philippines and seen the tarsier and the beautiful island of Boracay and my last stop the amazing and scenic country of Nepal.  Let’s not forget the new tattoo I got that means a lot more than just some ink on my arm and the incredible people that I have met along the way.  How can you out a price on all of that (besides the bank balance) but it has come at a cost to some extent-my future was thrown into haywire and a relationship that I thought would last till the end of time-didn’t.  These things happen and to use a quote I love

“Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck.”  

So with all that said and the additional 4 months of unexpected travel was ‘life’ changing, if it could even more than my previous 15 months and I was coming home for the last time, for a while anyway as I am unsure on when I will return for a holiday.  That has a real finality to that statement and that is what makes me feel’s sad.

My flight wasn’t until midday today, so I had the morning to get some breakfast and finalize my packing.  I was up at 6.30am and I was going to be on the go till midnight tonight when I arrived into Singapore and then had an additional 19 hours to kill before my flight back to Australia tomorrow night.  I have booked the Crown Plaza Singapore Airport for the stop, I figured by the time I arrived, collected my bags, paid for 2 nights and a late checkout it wasn’t worth the extra travel into the city and time, so I was happy with the plan to clear customs, grab my bags, change terminals and be at my hotel, especially after 10 hours of travel.  I was looking at staying at the Marina Sands in Singapore, you know the new hotel that is made up of 3 buildings and has a pool connecting them all together but at 500AUD for the night and I would need 2.5 nights, it was a price I wasn’t willing to pay-yes, I do have some limits-…….sometimes!  My last breakfast was at the Florid Hotel and even though they have been pretty quick each morning so far, I headed down at 7.30am to have some ‘snafu’ time should they be busy.  They were a little busier than previous trips, but I was still fed and watered by 8.30am and with a BIG thank-you and a larger than normal tip I made my way back to the hotel to collect my bags.  There were cabs out the front, so I checked with one what the price was, he quoted the going rate of 400 pesos, so I told him I would be back in 10 minutes, grabbed by bevy of bags and packed the small metro taxi with all my crap and we were on our way to the airport. 

As it was day 3 of Diwali, there was hardly any traffic on the roads as it is a holiday, so I made it to the airport with plenty of time to spare.  When we arrived there was a trolley guy there immediately as I opened my door, but my taxi man had gone to get me a trolley anyway.  I felt bad I didn’t take the guy’s trolley, and if I did I would have felt bad that I didn’t give him anything, even though there are signs all around telling tourists that you don’t need to pay for trolleys.  I was tipping my taxi driver anyway, so I let him grab my trolley-I certainly needed it that is for sure.  To enter the building you need to show your passport and your ticket and the lineup took around 10 minutes to get in and then there was another security check point where your bags were scanned and you were given the pat down to gain the final access to one of the most antiquated airports for a capital city in the world.  It is like stepping back to the 60’s and considering the amount of traffic that passes through here each year it is surprising the age of the airport.  I found my check-in counters and I had arrived exactly 3 hours prior to my flight and there were about 80 people in front of me already.  Talk about everyone being early, I think it may have something to do with the traffic being so unpredictable that everyone just starts out earlier than needed to make sure there are no hold ups on the way.  Maybe the Nepalese are a ‘snafu’ kind of people when it comes to travelling?  Either way, the counters didn’t open for another 15 minutes, so I stuck in my headphones and played solitaire for the time.  There was an older lady in front of me who had 2 small backpacks, one looked like her daily one and the other was a walking pack, and when the line started to moved she had great difficulty in bending over to reach her bags, looked to be in a lot of pain and trouble walking.  She had on her North Face pants and matching jacket and her walking boots, so my guess is she was hiking and something happened to her.  I helped he move her bags twice, as she didn’t even have a trolley (I wonder how she got to the airport for no-one to be with her or at least given her a trolley) and then the third time, she said she could do it and I didn’t help again.  You wouldn’t believe when she finally made it to the counter to check-in she was at the wrong one.  She was flying Thai Airways and she was standing in the Malaysia Airlines queue.  I felt so bad for her, her English didn’t seem the greatest, and as I was trying to listen I think she was slurring her words, she was in bad shape.  I offered my trolley but one of the staff behind the counter realized how bad she was and helped her with her bags and walked her to where she should be.    

So it was my turn to check in and get the monster on the scales and I was pretty close with the weight, it was 26.3kg.  The check-in girl looked twice and I knew that I may be in with a problem.  She told me I was 6kg over, and I agreed with her and then as we looked at each other I asked how much would it cost me?  Oh yes I well and truly knew [I was in to pay when she then called over a gentleman supervisor, they chit chatted in Nepalese and then told me it would be 6636rupees.  It always sounds a lot in a foreign currency and I am not that great at my 84 times tables, so when I worked out that was 79USD I then had to check if that was per kilo or total for the 6 of them. !!!!  I was relieved when they said that it was a total amount and without a fuss I pulled out my credit card.  I did ask for a break and could they give me a little leeway and the supervisor was very generous and gave me a 1kg extra allowance.  Gen-ner-ous. Well as mentioned the airport is so old, they don’t have a credit card facility, not even the old clack clack style ones, so now we had another problem.  They told me I could use the ATM down the other end of the building and then come back, but I did put my foot down and said how much was it in US dollars, they told me 79, and I opened my purse and pulled out 40USD and said this is all I have.  So they chit chatted again, the supervisor went away, and to speed things up I pulled out another 20USD telling them that was the last of it and they accepted it.  So my free kilo turned into 2 free kg’s and I paid for 4.  I just hoped that they didn’t see the other 100USD I had sitting in my purse.  I wasn’t going to push the point because if they asked to weigh my hand luggage I would be in a world of hurt with my small backpack weighing at least 10kg, my handbag that contained my laptop and IPad, which would have to be at least 6kg and then the freckle rug and a Buddha head in the shoulder bag that also would have been around 6kg.   Yeah-60 bucks well spent and after updating my status about the event a few people came back saying that it is pretty good when you think about all the other flights where I didn’t get pulled up.  Good point.  So after getting a receipt for the payment and my boarding pass I hightailed it out of there before they saw what else I was carrying.  They were happy and I was happy.  So on my 84th flight and my second last flight of my Odyssey I was busted for excess baggage, only the second time joining the time I was charged 45GBP for my flight from Dublin to London.  Not a bad strike rate I suppose, but also a credit to myself for my packing and travelling with stuff-right.     

There was one more passport and boarding pass check on our way up the escalators, customs and immigration was next.  I was the only one in line and I was waved over to an officer who was talking on his mobile as he stamped me out of the country.  They also had to stamp my boarding pass and as I walked away I realized I had given him my KL to Singapore boarding pass and not the Kathmandu to KL one.  So he technically stamped the wrong one.  Not thinking it was a big deal- I headed to the lounge area.  Here were the duty free shops, all 3 of them and 2 confectionary shops.  I had 245rupees burning a hole in my pocket (equivalent to 2.91AUD) and I got some lollies to suck on and I was 5rupees short for a Fanta and the cashier guy let me off.  How nice……  see things do come back around-even if it is the equivalent of 5c.  I sat down to consume my purchases as there was another security screen that had to be passed and I played some more solitaire and listened to some more tunes for another 45 minutes, before thinking I better get moving through and finally to the departure gate.  So there was a female line and a male line and once through the pat down and ready to collect my bags, the gentleman told me to take out my laptops, but I had and they were coming out of the machine, he then went back to his job and the nasty security lady asked for my boarding pass as she stamped the airline bag tags that were given to us at check in.  Well there seemed to be a massive issue that the boarding pass wasn’t stamped and she called the guy back over-he told her something in Nepali and then went back to his job again.  She then just started stamping and checking other ladies as they came through.  Um….. Hello-so I pulled out the other boarding pass to show that I did have a stamp and still nothing, so I gathered my bags and figured I would just walk off, when the guy came back and said that I had to go back to customs and get the right boarding pass stamped.  WHAT.  So I told them  was leaving all my bags with them and I walked against the flow of traffic to security, waved through, pushed in front of the queue that now had over 100 people in it and got ‘my’ guy to stamp the right pass.  Hmmmm he shouldn’t have been on the phone in the first place, but he did say sorry.  So I then made my way back to the female security line that now also had 10 women in front of me, got the pat down again, nasty security lady and finally I was given the wave through.  10m away was another security check, to make sure you had the damn stamp on the boarding pass and THEN you were finally through to the departure gates.  Talk about a security rigmarole but I made it through! 

The departure gates were busy, they were numbered but there were no boards telling you where your flight was leaving from.  There was a security guy at a table in between all the gates, so I asked where the Malaysia flights leave from and I was told gate 3.  So I entered the room, found a seat and then just watched the TV for the departing flight for that departure gate.  2 groups of people left on mass and I stalked their boarding passes as they all left and none of them were Malaysian passengers, but I figured it was time to take the tunes out and start to listen to announcements which was just as well as there was one made 15 minutes later of the gate change to my flight and we were all hoarded into a smaller room where there weren’t enough seats for all of us, so the boarding queue was automatically formed and after a further 20 minutes, security pushed past us and the boarding process began.  It was a bus boarding, and as we got closer to the exit, there were 2 lines, one for men and one for women and again we were patted down by security to be allowed to leave the building.  The bus was waiting and as my timing would have I was one of the last passengers on before the doors closed and we were driven the 300m to our plane.  Last on is great as it means you are first off.  As it was a tarmac board, we could board at the front and the rear.  Being in seat 24 I was guessing I would be closer to the rear of the plane, so without getting it checked I took the chance and it paid off.  There were 30 rows.  I had successfully bypassed the drama of boarding a plane.  As we taxied out, you could see other flights also preparing to leave.  It was busy with all the planes lined up-there were 6 other flights, no wonder it was busy at the terminal.  I was sitting on the left of the plane and without even realizing it I was to get another magnificent view of the Himalaya’s one last time and what a wonderful way to end my time in Nepal.  It was a beautiful day, the skies were clear and I got some magnificent photos, even if they were taken from my little camera.  It was a busy flight as well with not a spare seat on the flight.  We were sitting on a 737-800 with a configuration 3x3 and all buckled in for the 4hour and 25 minute flight.  Well you can guess what was for lunch-curry.  Curry chicken or curry beef-big range and I actually watched some TV on this flight with 4 episodes of Modern Family, man I love that show.  I have to get my ‘plane’ laugh on as my ‘normal’ laugh is a little scary for a confined space such as an airplane, but it makes me laugh so much.  It is probably one of the few shows I could watch again and again.

I love window seats, as you get to see some amazing cloud formations, sun reflections, sunsets, sunrises and the shades of colors ranging from the black, blues, reds, oranges and yellows.  Today was no different and probably one of the most memorable of my ‘window’ viewing experience starting with the view of the Himalaya’s and even though I was on the wrong side for the sunset, my side of the plane got a magic display of the sun’s rays bouncing off the clouds as they turned into night time and it looked like someone was shining a torch through the clouds-it is so hard to explain just how it looked, but it was amazing and I just couldn’t look away as we were moving so fast, there was always a different view.  It was dark when we arrived into Kuala Lumpur at 7.30pm.  My next flight wasn’t until 10.45pm, so I wasn’t in any rush to get off the flight, so I let everyone off and ended up being the last person off the flight.  I worked out where I was and where I had to get to and once that was established I had to catch the free airtrain to terminal D.  It is a quick 8 minute ride and once we got there; there were a lot more restaurants, duty free shops and things to do.  I saw a Burger King and with the chicken drummets in mind and the thought that of the short 45 minute flight I had coming up to Singapore and the midnight arrival, I thought I would have dinner here.  Unfortunately they didn’t have the drumettes, so with a burger and fries later I was on my way to find my new gate for my last flight of the day.  I was buggered. 

Our gate was closed when I got there, but was due to open at 9.30pm.  I took a seat further down from the entrance and played solitaire on my IPad, keeping an eye on the queue that was forming outside the gate waiting for it to open.  At 10pm, the line was increasing and I thought I better go and check what was happening and when I went down there, the queue was for the flight next door and all my passengers were inside getting ready for the boarding call.  A classic sign that you not only need to keep an eye on your fellow travelers, but make sure you are following the right ones.  The flight next door was off to Bahrain-yeah that’s not Singapore.  So I was able to bypass all the waiting people, for the other flight, rescanned and into the departure lounge where I only had to wait 10 minutes and then the flight was called and my seat row was the first one to board!  You ripper-I love getting on first and being able to store all my stuff in the overhead first and not have it taken up by people like me travelling with 3 pieces of hand luggage-well I think I deserve it, along with every other single person carrying more than they should. 

We left on time at 10.45pm for the short flight to Singapore.  There is just enough time for the hostees to serve a drink and a packet of peanuts before they come back through the cabin to collect all the rubbish and then prep the aircraft for landing.  This flight wasn’t as busy and I had the 2 seats next to me free.  It’s always the way with the short haul flights.  We were on a 737-800 aircraft again and I was in the same row I had from Kathmandu, just on the opposite side of the aircraft and the configuration was 3x3.  I had Googled where the Crown Plaza Airport Hotel was located, so I just needed to know what terminal we were flying into when we landed and I would know exactly where I was.  We arrived into Singapore at 11.50pm, and then made my way to customs.  I have a little routine now when I come into Singapore and it is generally 2 things.  I check my Facebook and email on one of the free computers throughout the terminals and with a bank of computers right near the escalators to go down to customs it is quick and easy and then I make my way down to collect my bag.  The other is getting chicken drumettes from Burger King which I didn’t think would be possible tonight with the time and being check-in side but with the time now after midnight I think I was going to be okay with that.

There weren’t too many people at customs and I only had to wait 10 minutes to get processed, which was fine as I know the airtrain runs till 2am and I also didn’t have far to travel now that I had my bag in hand.  The trolleys are free in Singapore, so after hefting the monster onto the trolley and getting waved through screening I was out and clear in Singapore.  By this time I was super happy I had made the decision to stay at the airport and as I started to make my way to the train I could see a Burger King and it was OPEN!!  Well I couldn’t pass up the drumettes, so I got a 12 pack (no fries) waited for them to get cooked and then took them with me to eat in my room once I arrived.  The Crown Plaza is linked by an internal walkway, passing 2 bars and a restaurant.  I had to catch the lift to the ground floor and then check-in to my room.  Once the formalities were done and the check-in chick managed to upgrade me to the breakfast and internet package I was told that I couldn’t take the airport trolley with me to the room.  I guess that makes sense.  So the bell boy was called and I wish I had a dollar for every face that has looked at the monster and had to lift the sucker.  I always tip anyone that has anything to do with moving my bag and tonight was no different, but he did have a hotel trolley, so it wasn’t like he had to carry it the whole way.  The hotel is actually quite nice and has a resort feel about it rather than a hotel feel.  The rooms had small entrances over bridges and I knew I was going to enjoy my 19 hours I had here.

The room was also amazing with a small sitting room, the king size bed, and a massive bathroom with a glass wall covered in frangipani’s looking out back into the sitting room.  The first thing I did was have a shower.  It actually had a wall around it, hot water and a steady flow of water for the 30 minutes I was in there.   MAGIC.   I then switched on the TV, booted up the computer, grabbed a Sprite from the fridge and then sat down to consume the 12 chicken drumettes I had bought from Burger King nearly an hour before and as disgusting as it sounds, they were delicious.   I decided to go to bed at 2.30am, as I had now paid for breakfast I had to make sure I would make it and as I set my alarm for 9am I was even too tired to think that I was ½ way home and I would be on my last plane tomorrow night to BRISBANE!!!!!


Monday, December 3, 2012

MY LAST DAY OF MY ODYSSEY


WEATHER: Cooler and 18C

HIGHLIGHT OF THE DAY: Airline repacking and it all FITS

BUMMER OF THE DAY: Saying goodbye to my World Odyssey

WORD OF THE DAY: All good things must come to an end…..

So today is my last official day Bernie’s World Odyssey.
I do have 2 days travel time to get me home, but it feels sad in one instance to think that 553 days has come to an end, but I am happy to be heading home for 5 weeks and then finally getting settled in Africa, finding my feet and settling down-well for a little while at least.  I really have no idea on what to expect, where I will be in 3 months’ time, let alone in 12 months’ time and this is what I am finding most anxious about the whole thing.  I am a planner from way back-in a western world I would have a job lined up, somewhere to live and have a date that I know I would be coming back to Australia for a visit.  I have NONE of those.  I am entirely in the hands of fate, and as exciting as it sounds, it is still terrifying for me.  At the end of the day, if anything happens, I know I can be on a jet-plane and on my way home in a heartbeat if I need/want to. 

I have nothing planned today at all except dinner with Kate at 6pm.  Oh besides packing my bags and finding room for all the jewelry, Buddha heads, the 7 books I bought, my freckle mat, scarves, 4 pictures and all my things that I left at the hotel before heading out on this trip.  I also want to work on my blog and finalize my African Odyssey blog, as I am just not sure how much time I will have once I get home.  It was busy last time I was here and I had 7 weeks, how will we cope when we only have 5 weeks, my birthday and Christmas to boot.  Well we will work with what we have – it’s all we can do.  So with that said, even though I knew I should have been doing a blog, I needed a break and ended up working on my new blog for the whole day.  I didn’t eat breakfast; I was now on a mission with the blog.  Once I put my mind to something I like to just get it done and I also thought I better make use of the power supply while I still had it in my room.  I also had every other power point in use charging cameras, IPod, IPad and also my Kindle for my trip home.  No-one can say that I am not prepared that s for sure. 

The power went off at 1pm and it was a blessing in disguise for me.  It made me get off the computer and get stuck into my packing.  Looking at all my things spread on the bed, I could see it was going to be a challenge, I knew it would all fit, it was just how much it was all going to weigh and the only thing I was worried about was my freckle rug.  I am still glad I bought it, it is super cool, but I was to still work out how I would get it home.  It took me 2 hours, but I got everything packed.  The ‘monster’ of my backpack lived up to its name, with me having to let out the extension zipper to give me some extra room to play with, I have wrapped my freckle bag as tight as I could in a plastic bag, taped it together and have slid it into my Philippine eco shoulder bag and I will carry it as hand luggage along with my small backpack and my handbag.  I am going to look a little awkward but what do I care, I’m on my way home and just need to make sure that I get into the overhead luggage space first so it doesn’t go with my 2 pieces of hand luggage.  Only a few things didn’t make the cut and that was the overnight bag I bought in Phuket and I also left my Crocs that I bought in Paraguay, they were on their last legs, so I may as well leave them here.  I reckon my backpack is around the 26kg mark, it is heavy-but hopefully I will get it through the next 2 check-ins, surely I can’t get hit for excess baggage on my last legs-can I? 

I got another blog uploaded and worked on the new project till 6pm when I had to leave to meet Kate for dinner and I am so glad that we made it early as I hadn’t eaten breakfast or dinner and I was famished.  We met again at the Kathmandu Guesthouse and then made our way to K-Too which seems to be a popular place for tourists to eat and we were lucky we were early, as the night wore on the place was a hive of activity and since we were in no hurry to leave we were one of the last table to leave later on.  It is well known for its steaks, so I had one of them and it was delicious and as it was my last night we decided to share a bottle of Chilean wine and we just chatted the night away.  There are some people in this world you just click with and Kate is one of them for me.  We probably spent more time together in the 2 times we have seen each other than what we did on our South American trip.  She was very outdoorsy, hiking and riding bikes where I was NOT that way inclined, so it Has been a late friendship to bloom but I am so lucky to have spent my last night with some-one and not on my own and as we said goodbye at 10pm with a promise to keep in touch, hopefully see each other at Christmas and a hug I walked home through the deserted streets with a smile on my face.      
  
So it may not have been the most exciting day, but it ended great, my bags are packed and tomorrow I start my 33 hour journey home and I am excited about seeing the guys again on Saturday morning.  It also means I am a step closer to having to make my mind up about what I am going to do with my belongings that are in the shipping container, but that is for tomorrow-tonight I need to soak up where I have been, what I have done, the people I have been blessed to meet and with all that in mind-I went to sleep with a smile on my dial and everything else happening in my life is moot.  Zeme and I used to have a saying that there is no use getting upset about things that happened yesterday-it has passed and we just need to look forward and I am going to take his advice and what happened between us has passed and I AM going to move forward, and with my head held high. 

Goodnight from my last official day on my World Odyssey.