Life is about the people you meet and the things you create with them

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Some opportunities only come only once-seize them

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Believe in magic

Love with all your heart

Be true to who you are

Smile often and be grateful

…and finally make every moment count

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Tuesday, August 28, 2012

MY STAY IN LONDON TOWN

I was in London for the week.  I am super thankful that Paps and Em were happy to host me for the 8 nights as the Olympics were on and I would hate to think how much the accommodation would have cost me had I had to stay in a hotel for that many nights.  I was also lucky that Em was on school holidays and was going to be around and that besides a few jobs Paps had to do he was also going to be around.  Besides the Olympics my timing couldn’t have been better. 

I arrived on Thursday.  By the time we got to Em’s and Paps place Pap’s was just about on his way out the door for work, so Em and I chatted for an hour or so before we walked the 10 minutes up to High Street for an early lunch and to run some errands.  Even though I had been on the go for 27 hours I was feeling okay at this stage and decided to just keep going till I was absolutely stuffed and would pass out with tiredness.  London has always been a cultural mix of people from all corners of the Earth and this was definitely the first thing I noticed about London and the suburbs on my return this time and I have to say I love the cultural mix.  People can walk along with pink hair, next to strict Muslim women covered from head to toe to Russian speaking girls to the Polish Café where we had lunch.  It reminds me a little of Darwin with the Asian/Greek/Italian population and the foods and heritage they bring to an Australian way of life.  I was able to get a UK sim card while we were here.  I have got an Orange sim card now and I made sure this time that I can top this baby up on line while I am overseas which was a yes and with the cost of a text message at 20p a message I think I will retire my Australian sim unless I really need to use it now and stick to my UK number.  So if you ever want to text me my new number is +44 758-014-6943.  As it was Paps 30th birthday on Saturday, Em was going to bake her very first birthday cake for him as a surprise.  As there were 40 people coming to the lunch doo-she ended up baking 10 little cakes in total to double them up and have 5 cakes in total.  I laughed when she said that I could help her.  I haven’t cooked in 17 months let alone bake a cake-are you kidding!?  So I told her I was more than happy to taste test what-ever was required but that was as far as I could go.  So after a 60 quid shop for all the ingredients we headed home early in the afternoon for Em to hit the kitchen and for me to hit the couch-I was running on empty now.  During the course of the afternoon we were trying to get Olympic tickets for anything that was available and not too expensive.  Well we could find tickets but they were 500-1300GBP a pop.  Yeah for those prices I won’t be attending any of the sporting events.  Paps and Em are lucky to have semifinal basketball tickets where USA are playing Argentina and they have also been to Wimbledon to see some of the tennis.  Lucky buggers.  Oh well we will keep trying.  The closing ceremony is only 1495GBP…… ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.  The 2012 Summer Olympics, officially the Games of the XXX Olympiad took place from 27 July to 12 August 2012.  More than 10,000 athletes from 204 National Olympic Committees (NOCs) participated.  London was the first city to officially host the modern Olympic Games times, having previously done so in 1908 and in 1948. During the Games, Michael Phelps became the most decorated Olympic athlete of all time, winning his 22nd medal.  Great Britain achieved its highest tally of gold medals since 1908, finishing third in the medal table. Usain Bolt became the first sprinter to retain all three sprinting gold medals at consecutive Olympics. Saudi Arabia, Qatar and Brunei entered female athletes for the first time, meaning every country has sent a female competitor to at least one Olympic Games. With women's boxing included, the Games became the first at which every sport had female competitors.  It was great to switch on the TV every day and see men and women give their all for their country and it was quite emotional as you hear individual stories about competitors from all different countries.  Now that I am in Britain I am also keeping a close eye on their finals hopes (well Paps is and I am just here for the ride).  I am proud to report that I stayed awake till 10pm when I finally crashed on the couch-it was time to go to bed.      

Friday was a new day and with a sleep in till 10am I felt like a new woman.  When you travel across a few times zones it is really important to try and get into step with the new time and sleeping patterns and even though I had a tough day yesterday it really was the best thing I could have done as now I feel fresh as a daisy.  We all just hung around the apartment till 3.30pm when I got a lift to the Streatham train station to head into the ‘city’ for my date with Cheryl, my United Hostee.  Paps and Em were heading to the Olympic semifinals of the basketball, so they weren’t going to be home when I was due to return.  So with my directions to get home all set and gone through 10 times, I think I was confident to catch the 2 tubes, the overland and the local bus to get me home.  It sounds a lot but it was quite easy.  I just hadn’t done it before and anything new is always a little un-nerving but something I am going to have to get used to again. 

I always meet my Hostees at the same hotel they that are put up in each time on Edgeware Road.  It is just like a ritual we now have.  It was just Cheryl this time as United operate 2 flights an early and a late and this trip they were separated.  The upside was I am getting to see them both on Monday when they come back across the pond again.  It is so cool that we got to meet 3 times last year, I stayed with them in Chicago in May for a week and I see them again on Monday.  It is weird the way the world works.  Cheryl and David were 2 people I met on my Middle East cruise in 2009 and we have just kept in touch over time till my travels took me through London and we were able to meet up each time I passed through and has worked out really well and we never would have thought that we would ever have seen each other as much when we said goodbye to each other in April 2009.  I am proud to report I got Cheryl onto Facebook; I encouraged her to get an international phone and also change her plastic day bag to a proper bag of some sort.  They are definitely good eggs and I am so glad to have them in my life.  I got to the hotel with 5 minutes to spare so I placed a quick call to Zeme.  It is always great to hear his voice and he is currently on tour for 17 days in Ethiopia and Kenya.  So I met Cheryl at the hotel at 4.30pm and we made our way to Marble Arch which was a 15-20 minute walk away.  I did have 2 chores that I had to do.  One was to stop on Oxford Street by a shop I always go to get clothes as I needed to buy a pair of cargo pants and I had in my purse a Blu Ray list of movies that Em and I were going to buy Pap’s for his birthday tomorrow.  I figured I could do the clothes shop on the way home from dinner and Paps Blu Rays was more important with his birthday looming tomorrow.  So we visited HMV in Selfridges and we got asked if we needed help, so I pulled out my list and of the 3 movies on there they had all 3 movies!!!!  There was a sale on where you could get 3 for 20GBP but the third one I had got was not included in the deal (of course) so I got another Blu Ray and now had a total of 4.  I think Paps will be happy with that.  2 from Em’s and 2 from me.  One of the movies I got was a Nat Geo documentary of the Gorilla’s in Rwanda which is where I met Paps and Em just over 12 months ago on the first section of my Africa trip and we got to spend an amazing hour with relatives from the Gorilla’s in the doco.  It was a pretty cool gift if I say so myself and a personal touch that meant something to the 3 of us.   

London really knows how to shine when the weather is good.  All the pubs are overflowing with people spilling out onto the streets with pints of beers in their hands.  Add onto that the Olympic atmosphere and Team GB doing their country proud it was an amazing evening to be out and about.  It really was a hot evening, one of the few that London gets and we found a great little Thai restaurant in St Christopher’s Place just one street back from Oxford Street where Cheryl and I were able to catch up on the last 6 weeks since we had seen each other in Chicago.  I love talking to Cheryl as she is a great listener and we just have a great time together and before we knew it was 8pm and decided to get moving as I had to get my way home that I hadn’t done before and was going to take over an hour, so I wanted to get cracking.  I missed the clothing shop though, but I was back in this knick of the woods on Monday so I would just stop in then to try and find a pair of cargos for my Sri Lanka and Nepal trips. 

My trip home was uneventful.  I had to catch the Brown line (Bakerloo) to Elephant and Castle and then the Black line (Northern line) 5 stops to Balham and then I had to catch he 315 bus that would drop me directly out the front of the flat.  The 315 bus comes around every 30 minutes and I must have just missed the 8.30 bus and the next bus must have been late as it didn’t come till 9.15pm but it came and I was able to use my tube day pass so I just had to flash that when I got on the bus.  So far so good.  I now just had to keep an eye on crossing High Street and the bridge after about 15 minutes and then I knew I was home.  I was a little out of my comfort zone as I really had no idea where I was going to get to my final destination, it was all unknown but I have to get used to this as that is what my life is going to be like when I move to Ethiopia so I really need to get used to it.  Toughen up Princess.  Anyway I was lucky, we crossed High Street, we passed over the bridge and then someone else pushed the button so I got off with them and had a short walk to the flat.  I had made it home safe and sound and it was 9.30pm.  Paps and Em were still at the basketball, it had only started at 9pm, so I let myself in with the keys that I had been given and then stayed up as late as I could waiting for them to get home before I fell asleep on the couch till midnight when they got home.  Quite a successful Friday and the weather has just been amazing.  I did also manage to start making dates with people for next week.  So far I have Jo from Africa lined up for tomorrow night and a surprise for Paps, my United Hostees from Chicago, Sharon for lunch and Heather for a catch up on Monday, Helen in Birmingham from my South America trip on Wednesday night in Birmingham and then off to Brighton on Friday.  I have a busy week ahead and I know that I am missing out on catching up with people, but I can only do what I can and maybe catch them on the next round in January? 

Saturday was Pap’s 30th birthday.  Happy birthday buddy.  We had a full day planned with lunch for 40 at a pop up restaurant at Angel and the 5 cakes (of course) and then there was an evening doo organized at the pub for the second round of friends that couldn’t/didn’t make the lunch doo.  I headed in early with Em to get some balloons up and to help carry the grog and cake stuff to the venue.  We had to catch a bus and 2 tubes to get there and this is just an accepted part of the London culture to carry all you need on the tubes.  You see people carrying all sorts of things on the tube from dogs to baskets to frames to all sorts of things and this is just the way, the only way for some people to move things around.  So with 3 bottles of plonk, 5 cakes and all the other things needed we made it to the restaurant with 10 minutes to spare before the guests started to arrive.  Paps was to follow 45 minutes after us with some friends as he didn’t know where he was going, so he was late for his own party but I guess he could get away with it as it was his day after all……..  So what is a Pop-up Restaurant?  A Pop-up restaurant, also called a supper club, are temporary restaurants. These restaurants often operate from a private home, former factory or similar and during festivals.  Pop-up restaurants have been popular since the 2000’s in Britain and Australia but they are not a new phenomenon. Pop up restaurants have existed in the United States and Cuba.  Diners typically make use of social media, such as the blogosphere and Twitter, to follow the movement of these restaurants and make online reservations.
Pop up restaurants, like food trucks, are an ideal way to gain exposure of young professionals' skills in the field of hospitality in order to get investors and attention to open a restaurant or another culinary concept.  Pop-up restaurants have been hailed as useful for younger chefs, allowing them to utilize underused kitchen facilities and "experiment without the risk of bankruptcy".  This restaurant was called Pips Dish and was known for his organic and kitch food and I have to say it was delicious.  The restaurant was in an old garage, so there was still rust on the walls, chains from the roof and some car parts that had been painted to give the place some charm.  We were told not to touch anything that looked like it shouldn’t be touched as he was not covered for insurance and this is also where the Pop-up Restaurants get away with what they do for a small period of time, generally 6 months before they have to stay and get everything ship shape or they close and then open somewhere else.  It was nice to meet a whole bunch of Paps and Ems friends, a little tough to start when you don’t know people, but I had met Girl, Paps sister before and also Gemma so I got to hang with them for most of the afternoon.  We had to be out of there at 4pm, so with a few wines under our belts and 3 hours to kill until our next party time we walked 15 minutes to a supermarket, bought some more grog and then headed to a nearby park and sat on the grass as a group (there was about 25 of us) and enjoyed the sunshine, the company and the wine that kept flowing for the few hours we were there.  At 7pm it was time to head as a group on the tube to a pub where we were to spend the rest of the evening drinking and catching up.  Em and I had a surprise up our sleeve for Paps.  He didn’t know that Jo, our friend from Ireland, was in town for the Olympics and we had lined her up to meet us at the tube and surprise Paps and to get a little Jo time at the same time.  Needless to say he was ecstatic to see her, as were we and this is who I drank and chatted with till 1.30am in the morning when it was time to finally go home.  So we all didn’t do too bad having a 12 hour drinking session but maybe we should wait to see how we all pull up in the morning…. It could be messy…..

Sunday was a write off.  None of us woke till 11am and we were all seedy as hell.  I don’t know how Emma did it but she cooked us a hot breakfast and then we all passed out around the flat till 7pm when Paps and Em was invited to a friend’s place just down the road to watch the closing ceremony.  I was also invited but decided to decline as I knew that I probably wouldn’t make it past 9pm.  I was a little productive in the afternoon, I booked all my trains for the end of the week.  They are advance purchase tickets so booking them on Sunday gave me some of the cheapest tickets available.  I did have one issue when I was about to pay for my first round of tickets and it is an extra security measure called Verify Visa.  You have, well should have, a password, which was the issue, I have 3 different credit cards with me and I don’t know the Verify Visa password for any of them BUT I do have a password for my card that I have left in Australia, so I used that to buy the tickets and then I read after it had been confirmed that you have to show your actual credit card and your reference number to be able to collect the tickets.  Ummmmm my card is in Australia and I just paid 18GBP for my tickets.  CRAP.  The other 2 tickets I used my MasterCard which doesn’t have the Verify Visa (good to know) so I won’t have any issues collecting them, but I am just going to hope I get someone nice at the ticket window on Wednesday and I don’t have to pay for new tickets.  Well I was pretty close to my bed time, I made it till 9.30pm.  In my defence I didn’t sleep as much as the guys did during the day and I was absolutely shattered.  I watched the first hour of the closing ceremony on TV and it I lost interest in it pretty quick, so I surfed the TV channels till 9.30pm when my eyelids just wouldn’t stay open any longer and I retired myself to bed this time instead of falling asleep on the couch to get a good night’s sleep.  I was knackered.

So that was my first 4 days in London.  It is so nice to still be able to spend time with friends and not be on tour, it makes a nice change and something I have been doing since May 14th.  This will come to an end next week when I start my Scottish tour with Sharon and then the next 107 days will be in hotels, B&B’s and hostels, so I should make the most of this time and I am eternally grateful for my friends opening their homes to me.    

Thursday, August 16, 2012

DAY 454 - BERNIES WORLD ODYSSEY CONTINUES

DISTANCE TRAVELLED: 17,266km

If you had of told me a week ago that I would be picking up my World Odyssey again for a further 4 months I wouldn’t have believed it.  But that is exactly where I find myself today as I got out of bed and completed the last of my packing as I embark on a further 107 days to places I have not been and meet more people and hopefully make some more life-long friends.  I really think that is the highlight of any trip, meeting people and knowing that you have a new friend I love that part of my travels and I hope that the luck I have had with all my trips continues.  I have packed too many clothes, I do know this but as clothes can be difficult to find in my size and I don’t have to find room for anything else I’ll take what I can fit into my pack and if I have to I can cull stuff as needed on my travels.  Beside the clothes I really don’t have a lot of ‘travel’ crap like I started out with last year.  I know what I need and what I use so it really wasn’t such a big deal getting all my stuff packed.  It was just a mission on finding a new home for all my stuff, but this will all just come with time as well and like anything new it just takes some getting used to it.  I was also not going to take my sneakers but after reading the trip notes of both my Intrepid tours there looks like there are a few ‘hikes’ and walking involved so at the last minute they survived the cull and they were packed along with 2 boxes of BBQ Shapes as Paps and Em (my British friends) tasted my stash last year and loved them, so I have also made room for them in my bags.    

I was going to walk my God-daughters to school this morning with Shane, but when I thought about it I think it was better that I said my goodbyes at home so if it did get all emotional that we weren’t at school leaving sobbing children when Shane had to get to work and I would have to leave the girls at school.  As it was we were all running a little late, so it was a mad dash for the girls and a flurry of goodbyes and school bags and I think this was probably the best thing to have happened.  As the girls were walking down the stairs I couldn’t even say goodbye as I would have just burst out into tears which is exactly what I did after I heard the door close downstairs.  Shelly gave me a big hug and we just said 46 days to go….. Which is when I will be seeing them all again in Phuket in September.  I think it won’t hit the girls till they come home from school this afternoon and then they realize that I have actually gone.  Sorry to Shelly and Shane to leave them with the fallout of my departure.  I am going to miss those two smiling little faces, their laughter, their banter, their vision and how they perceive the world through a five and seven year olds eyes.

I had a few things to get from the shops this morning.  My flight wasn’t till 1.40pm, so I had some time in the morning to get this all done.  I re-checked my departure time and this is when I noticed that I was going to be on the A380 from Singapore to London.  After all the flights I had been on this was one plane that I was still to get onto, so that was a nice surprise that I was finally going to fly on this magnificent plane.  I also had to refuel the car as this had to be returned back to the depot this morning on the way to the airport.  The main purchase was to get some Sudafed as I have been battling a cold and a horrific cough for the last few weeks and I was really congested in the nose.  I just hope that I wasn’t going to have any problems flying with a blocked nose as it can also affect your ears and that is just not an enjoyable ride at all.  I have decided to not take any drugs with me this trip as it can all be purchased on-route.  No matter where you are in the world there is always a pharmacy around or people on your trip that has all the drugs and would tide you over till you got to a chemist.  When I get to London I will get some Imodium (diarrhea medication) and when I get to Ethiopia I will get Zeme to get me some Malaria tablets as they are only 2.50AUD for a 10 week course.  The medication may not be up to Western standards but I am sure that it will do the trick as I will probably need them in Sri Lanka and Nepal. 

Besides nearly getting taken out by a garbage truck as I entered the rental car place, the car was returned and checked with no problems and Shelly and I were on our way to the airport.  I was lucky Shelly had taken half the morning off to drop me at the airport and when I suggested that she just drop and drive, this was slapped down in disgust as we parked.  There was no-one at check-in so I was straight up to the check-in counter and I had all my finger and toes crossed that my new bag would not exceed 23kg.  I always knew with my old bag, when it was choked to the max that it would not weigh more than 23.8kg but I had no idea on what capacity my new bag weighed and it was pretty chockers.  So I was pleasantly surprised when my bag went on the scales it was 23kg, so this is good to know that I can also stuff the new backpack and it’s not going to weigh more than that.  I think people forget about that when the buy new backpacks, besides the bigger they are the more cumbersome they are but it means more weight and then you have the extra stress when you airline travel of excess baggage which is an expensive lesson to learn.  With my window seats confirmed and both my boarding passes through to London Shelly and I decided to have a drink and for old times’ sake Red Rooster chips and a small gravy to boot for a mid-morning schnack as we put off as long as we could our final goodbye.  I am not a crier in public but as I hugged my best friend goodbye for the final time we were both crying and it was a hug I won’t forget in a long time.  As I have mentioned I do see them all again at the end of next month which takes a little of the sadness out of the parting but heck it is so emotional saying goodbye to the people who you love and mean a lot to you. 

Security wasn’t too bad, I went off through the scanner (Ethiopian bangles) and had to get the thorough pat down and then my backpack had to be rescanned and then went it came back out the second time they had to take some things out of the bag and rescan it again for the third time as it was too dense for the machine to make out anything.  So once it came out again I got the all clear, to repack the bag that was bursting at the seams anyway to then turn to leave and I was asked for an explosive test.  Dang, do I look like trouble today?  With Darwin still fresh in my mind of the positive test I was hoping that I wouldn’t have any issues at an international airport.  Well I had nothing to fear as I was a negative and I was finally on my way through to customs.  I always ask for a stamp when I leave Australia and as he was processing my passport it took a few times for it to actually work as he kept inserting it and then re-inserting it back into the machine.  I then saw him push a button on the bench and I didn’t think anything of it until another customs guy came over and took me and my passport through where I was told to wait on the white tiles as my passport was checked.  It was a little nerve wracking as the only thing I can think of was they think my passport is a fake.  Well I didn’t have to wait too long when I was handed back my passport and given the all clear.  So I am not sure what was checked or the reason behind the additional check but as long as I was free to go then I really didn’t care.

I didn’t have any British Pounds for when I arrived into London and I also wanted to top up my USD purse as well so I visited the Travelex office in the departure lounge and got some money converted.  I wouldn’t recommend you do it that way and it’s not so much with the crappy rate that they give you when you are changing small amounts but the 12AUD fee PER transaction that they charge you is a little steep I think.  I also asked the lady about the fees on the new MasterCard as I still think that the 5.95% that we are charged is a little steep but she couldn’t really give me a definitive answer so I am just going to stick to the card I have been using the whole odyssey and use the others as backups.  I also didn’t have any Australian souvenirs.  I had a lot of stickers and pins left over from my last trip but I had packed them away and couldn’t find them so I bought a new pack of stick pins to use as gifts.  I find that people like them and they don’t take up too much room in my bag.  I know I paid a premium for them at the airport but that is just too bad as it is better than having nothing at all and I will probably be more inclined to give them out as I know how much I paid for them on EBay last year v’s at the airport today.

By the time I had all that done I had to really make my way to my gate and 45 minutes later they we making the boarding calls for the flight.  My seat row was called first so once I was strapped in; I had to play that dang waiting game on if the seat next to me was going to be free or not.  The aircraft was a 747-300 with a seating configuration of 3x4x3.  It looked like it was a new aircraft, it even smelt new.  The in-seat TV’s are massive and all touch screen.  People bag Qantas sometimes, but I’m telling you they really do have a good product, no matter what you may think of them.  I was sitting in 53K and a lady came and sat on the aisle in 53H as we then both waited for the magical announcement that the planes doors had now been shut, which came 30 minutes later and we were able to spread out a little with the empty seat between us.  I LOVE LOVE it when I have a spare seat next to me, especially on the long haul flights and I do believe I need to welcome back my travel god and send a hearty thank-you for this small break on a 7 hour flight over 6150km.  As it was a day flight I settled in and watched The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, wrote in my journal that starts again on day 454, played solitaire on my IPad, read some of my Kindle which I am still trying to get used to and I also slipped in a small kip for 45 minutes.  Now that is how you fill up time on a long haul flight.  Before I knew it we were preparing for our landing into Singapore.  It was approaching 7pm and the sun was just starting to set and it was just beautiful flying in over the Asian jungle with the sun hitting my face as the last rays of my first travel day back on the road hit my face.  I also got some great sunset pictures after we had arrived on the ground. 

I have been through Singapore Changi Airport many times but in the next 4 months I will be passing through here 9 times.  It’s a lot and I am guessing that I will get to know the airport well as I wait for my connecting flights here.  It was cost effective to make Singapore my travel hub with all my inter-Asia travel hence all the transits I am going to have through here and decided that each time I pass through I will get to one of the many free attractions they offer here to give a Bernie guide to what is on offer here. 

Singapore Changi Airport is the main airport in Singapore.  As of March 2012, Changi Airport serves more than 100 airlines operating 6,100 weekly flights connecting Singapore to over 220 cities in about 60 countries and territories worldwide. The airport is a secondary hub for Qantas, which uses Singapore as the main stopover point for flights on the Kangaroo Route between Australia and Europe. Qantas is the largest foreign airline to operate from the airport, with over two million passengers annually. An important contributor to the Economy of Singapore, more than 28,000 people are employed at the airport, which accounts for over S$4.5 billion in output.  Changi Airport has four passenger terminals with a total annual handling capacity of more than 70 million passengers. Terminal 1 opened in 1981, followed by Terminal 2 in 1990 and Terminal 3 in 2008. The Budget Terminal, opened in 2006, will be closed in September 2012 to make way for Terminal 4 which will be ready by 2017.  In 2011, the airport handled 46,543,845 passengers, a 10.7% increase over the previous year. This made it the seventh busiest airport in the world and the second busiest in Asia by international passenger traffic in 2011. The airport crossed the 45 million mark for the first time in its history in December 2011, recorded its busiest month in December 2011 (4.53 million) and its busiest day on 17 December 2011 with 165,000 passengers handled. In addition to being an important passenger hub, the airport is one of the busiest cargo airports in the world, handling 1,865,252 tons of cargo in 2011. The total number of commercial aircraft movements was 301,711 in 2011.  The airport has won over 390 awards since 1981, including 23 'Best' awards in 2011. If you have an airport stopover Changi is a great airport for things to see and do and most of them are for free. 

The first GREAT thing about the airport is they offer free internet access with over 500 computer stations over the 3 terminals.  You don’t need to sign up, you just log into what you want and then they give you 15 minutes to do ‘your’ thing.  If there isn’t anyone waiting you can just hook back in for another 15 minutes but I find that is enough time to check emails and check and update Facebook.  They don’t have chairs they are benches so they don’t promote that you slouch away for hours on the computers but generally there are always available ones as you walk around the terminals.  So with 4 hours to pass here this time around, I stopped for dinner at Burger King, I know it seems boring as there are a lot of restaurant options here but I promise I will not here again on my next 9 trips, but it was good as they had Mexican wings that looked and tasted just like the wingettes that I was eating far too often on my trip in Spain last year.  They were delicious and hit the spot for me to then explore 2 of the many gardens that Changi has to offer.  The first was the Cactus Garden in terminal 1, departure transit lounge, level 3.  This award-winning garden showcases more than 40 species of cacti and succulents from Africa and the Americas. Have an out-of-the world experience in this forest of surreal plants like the Golden Barrels, Silver Touch, Oldman Cactus, towering Prickly-Pear and giant bottle shaped Club-Foot trees. There is also a collection of massive prehistoric Cycads, towering Euphorbia's and tree-like Dracaenas.  AS it was now dark outside there was mood lighting through the pathways that made it all look a little magical.  There was also a smokers section out here as it is an outdoor garden and there was also a bar tucked away in the corner that had TV’s showing the Olympics and some music playing.  It was actually a nice way to get away from the hectic pace of the airport and it didn’t really feel like you were in an airport at all.  My second garden that I had on my list was the Red Tulips, which are these massive flower looking lights that are lit up pink at night time.  Well these seemed a lot more difficult to find as I asked 4 staff of the airport where they were when my map failed to get me to the right place and no-on really knew and I was getting sent back and forth over terminal 1.  I was about to give up when I saw a small sign telling me I had found them and you can imagine my disappointment when I went outside and found that they weren’t working!!!  After all that.  I do need to mention that most of the gardens are outdoors, which means it is also a smoker’s zone which detracts a little as you walk around passively smoking, but it is nice to get outdoors and to see something else besides arrival and departure screens. 

It was time for me to start my way back to my departure gate.  So I have done 2 things off my ‘Changi’ list which is a start and then every time I pass back through here I’ll add something else to the list.  I might as well and if it helps pass the time in transit why not.  Most of my flights are transiting through the night, so I won’t be able to do the free city tours that the airport offers during day transits, but I am sure there will be plenty of things to keep me busy without having to leave the airport anyway.  I also go through all three terminals which is also pretty cool, if there is such a thing as a cool transit in an airport.  We passed through another security check point to get us to the departure gate and then we only had to wait around 45 minutes as they started to call us to board by rows.  I was sitting in the same seat number that I had from Brisbane, but this time I was going to be on the A380!  This was going to be a treat.  As I was row 53K I was expecting to be one of the first called, but on the A380 economy starts from row 51 so I was in the last call on board which I normally hate as all the overhead space generally disappears but whether it was people around me didn’t have lots of hand luggage or the bins are bigger I had no issues and with me settled into my massive, MASSIVE window seat I didn’t have to wait long to find out that I had the middle seat spare again for the 12 hour and 40 minute flight direct into London. 

As mentioned I was on the A380 and this plane is MASSIVE.   My seat was at the start of the wing section and to look out my window and see the MASSIVE engines and the length of the wings you just have to wonder how something so bug can actually take off.  It really is a marvel to behold that is for sure.  I didn’t find the width of the seats that generous but the knee to seat in front of you ratio was really good and the in seat TV’s are the size of an IPad, perfect for movie watching and all touch screen.  The seating configuration was 3x4x3 and the welcome announcement from the purser told us there were 365 passengers, 21 staff and 4 pilots on the flight.  That is the first time ever I have heard those stats from a flight, but always great information for the blog. 

The Airbus A380 is a double-deck, wide-body, four-engine jet airliner.   It is the world's largest passenger airliner and, due to its size, many airports have had to expand their facilities to properly accommodate it. Designed to challenge Boeing's monopoly in the large-aircraft market, the A380 made its maiden flight on 27 April 2005 and entered initial commercial service in October 2007 with Singapore Airlines. The A380's upper deck extends along the entire length of the fuselage, with a width equivalent to a wide-body aircraft. This allows for an A380-800's cabin with 478 square meters of floor space; 49% more floor space than the next-largest airliner, the Boeing 747-400 with 321 square meters and provides seating for 525 people in a typical three-class configuration or up to 853 people in all-economy class configurations. The A380-800 has a design range of 15,400 kilometers sufficient to fly from New York to Hong Kong, and a cruising speed about 900 km/h.  As of July 2012 there had been 257 firm orders for the A380, of which 80 have been delivered. The largest order, for 90 aircraft, was from Emirates.

I was tired.  I am lucky I can sleep on planes and with this flight being a night flight departing Singapore at 11.20pm, after the mighty A380 had taken off we were feed a late dinner and then it was time for me to bunk down for the night and get some sleep.  It was a shame that I was so tired as they had a great selection of movies that I wanted to watch but my eyelids were just too heavy to keep open and I nodded off to sleepy land for 9, yes NINE hours…  Now that is probably the best way to kill time on the flight, 9 hours past only gave me just under 4 hours to fill before landing.  So I switched on a movie and watched ½ of The Sapphires, which is an Australian movie that only got released at the cinema the day before, so that was pretty cool until the entertainment system decided to crap itself and it was all shut down for 30 minutes as they restarted it.  By the time it was back up and running breakfast was being served and I would run out of time to see the ending so I decided to read and just listen to my music as I watched the sun set over a foggy London as we came into land. 

Once we arrived into London Heathrow it was like a ghost town.  We arrived in at 5.30am, so I guess we were probably one of the first morning arrivals, but I wasn’t going to complain as I passed through British immigration, briefly grilled on what and how long I would be in the UK, the waiting in line and process took about 15 minutes.  I have heard that since the Olympics that everything has been moving like clockwork and I can account that this is definitely the case, well at 5.30am in the morning anyway.  Considering how far we had to walk to get to immigration and then down to the baggage carousel, we only had to wait 10 minutes and then the bags starting to slide onto the conveyor belt.  With a trolley in hand and my bag one of the first off the plane, I was able to make my way straight out of customs.  Now I had to work out how I was going to get to Victoria Station which is where I had to get to catch the overland train to Paps and Ems place where I would be staying for the week while I was in London. There are 2 ways this could be done.  You can catch the Heathrow Express to Paddington which takes only 15 minutes or you can catch the Tube that takes over an hour with stops and masses of people.  You pay a premium for the Heathrow Express, but for me with the timing of peak hour, with my backpack and the bustle of the workers heading to a boring/grinding job it was worth to pay the 21GBP to get me all the way to Victoria Station with a change at Paddington.  Especially since I had been on the go for more than 24 hours, it was well worth the extra cash.  I was lucky the Heathrow Express wasn’t busy and my arrival into Paddington and getting on the Victoria line wasn’t that busy either.  Keeping in mind it is still only 6.30am in the morning. 

Once I got to Victoria Station I had to find the ticket counter for my ticket to Streatham and then where to go once I had that ticket.  The lady behind the counter was super helpful and once I had my ticket I had to keep my eye on the departures board to see what platform my 7.15am train would be departing.  Well I waited and waited and waited when with only 10 minutes till the departure time a platform was allocated and I had to haul some backpack arse to get there with 5 minutes to spare.  Nothing like letting people know at the last minute.  So I was now on a suburbia train and I knew what station I had to get off but I hadn’t counted the stops so I sat with my backpack still strapped to my back and watched busy London traffic pass me by till I got to my station where Em’s was waiting with a massive hug and a great cheery smile, just the way I remember her.  It was good to be here.      

So that was day 454 of my World Odyssey.  Welcome back to my faithful and loyal readers.  I will be continuing my daily blogs just like before, my labor of love continues and I look forward to sharing more of my journey, my highs, my lows and what this wonderful world has to offer.  I am doing what I love and no matter how it all came about, everything works out for a reason and I just need to follow my heart and my head and know that all will be okay in the end.     


Saturday, August 11, 2012

GOODBYE BRISBANE-IT’S BEEN A GREAT 6 WEEKS

So my time back home has come to an end.  6 glorious weeks and 5 glorious days.  My how they have flown.  The last week has been a hive of activity and a major upheaval of plans that changed what I was doing with the next 6 months of my life.  It took a good 24 hours to sink in that I was postponing my settling down in Ethiopia till January 2013 and I now had 12 weeks to fill in and the answer was to of course travel for those extra 3 months till I am able to go back to Ethiopia in January/February next year.  Now I know people are thinking poor Bernie (sarcastic) but in my mind I was ready.  I was moving to a new country, getting my head around all the things that I had to do, building up my confidence to tackle what laid ahead and all within 2 days this was all turned on its head.  It was a matter of readjusting, rethinking and rescheduling like mad over the weekend and I was ready to book my new plan of attack on the Monday, 2 days before I was due to leave Australia.   

I rang the office to book the tours, as I try and given them as much business as I can where they can make some money.  I had done all my homework (you can’t take the travel agent out of me) and I was all priced and informationed up when I rang Ellen.  We looked at the airfares to see what the cost came in at and I hate to say it, 90% of the flights were cheaper for me to book than Ellen.  Being an ex-travel agent I know that time is money and I don’t mind paying the booking fee and a little more if the price is close, but when it is more than $100-$150 per ticket and I had 10 tickets to book, that adds up and I have to draw the line and that is what happened in this case.  So while Ellen booked the tours, a few flights and pre and post accommodation and accommodation in Phuket, I was madly booking 15 flights, travel insurance and accommodation at the Hilton for 4 nights in Phuket for the wedding that Ellen could do but was more expensive.  I feel bad as I hated it when people did that to me as an agent, but I must say I did understand if it was a massive amount of difference and I had done a lot of the ground work, but I know how frustrated Ellen was feeling when we were checking everything.  I was using my visa card to pay for everything and I had 4 more flights and insurance to go when my card was declined.  I was waiting for this to happen with all the action that it was getting I just knew that ANZ would stop the card and check the purchases before they would let anything else go through and low and behold the phone rang 4 minutes later from Ellen stating that ANZ had just called about a matter on my credit card.  So I phoned the fraud department back, got my card reinstated and then continued on my merry way charging the last of my 15 flights.  Talk about booking things last minute and now I just hope that when I get to Addis now that Zeme doesn’t say its ok for me to stay now, I would just die-but I am just fooling myself that this will be the case.  SO I am now all 100% booked and paid up until 03rd January 2013.  With it only being August it does sound like a long time, but I know that time will just fly by and I am now back into my travelling way of thinking and looking forward to being on the road again and I really can’t complain if this is my alternative, I just wish I was somewhere else and I mean that in the nicest possible way.

I also had to go through all my passwords and online bank account/Travelex accounts to make sure they were all in ship shape order.  Lucky I did as I had to reset 2 passwords as I couldn’t remember what they were but if I had any issues I would be able to ring them while I was still in Oz and get it all sorted.  Shelly and I also lodged my tax return for the 2011/2012 year.  I was lucky that I had earned below the threshold which in turn meant I didn’t have to pay the Medicare levy which in turn meant I didn’t have to pay the tax man any money, but I also didn’t get any money back either.  Oh well it is better than having to pay anything and I am keeping the Tax people happy.  Looking at the new rules they are implementing for the next financial year it looks like I won’t even have to lodge a return at all next year if I am out of the country again for a long period of time, which will be even better, but we will wait and see. 

My god-daughters were starting to find it hard that I would be gone in 2 sleeps.  Tessie more than Zoe this time around.  She was in inconsolable tears on Monday night and no matter what was said to her to try and get her calmed down she just cried harder saying that ‘she didn’t want Aunty Bernie to leave’.  I decided to buy the girls a small gift in a way of saying thanks for having me in their home.  I bought them both a letter G Pandora bead which stands for God-mother/God daughter so when they have a sad day and they miss me they could look at that bead and know that I am thinking of them.  This seemed to put a smile on their dials and with the promise that we would be seeing each other again in Phuket in 46 days it was the best that Shelly and I could do to try and make the goodbye as painless as possible.  In exchange the girls did some goodbye cards that were just the sweetest and I have packed them in my travel diary so when I have a sad day I can read them and know that they are missing me too. 

My last night in Brisbane was spent with the Elkin family and Shelly cooked my most favorite thing for dinner – Quiche!!!!  It is the best thing in the whole world; washed down with a cold champagne I couldn’t think of a better way to spend my last hours in Australia.  The neighbors popped over for a glass of bubbles and a goodbye and with a few phone calls from people the time had come to leave what I now call home and to hit the road and further explore this wonderful planet we have.  I am truly blessed with the people I have in my life, all over the world, and the love, support and words of encouragement I receive on a daily basis just reiterates just how lucky I am.  So I thank every single one of you who call me a friend and who are in my life, I am eternally grateful.

Everything will be all right in the end
If it’s not all right
Then it’s not yet the end……………      

  

Monday, August 6, 2012

MY NEW ITINERARY FOR THE NEXT 3 MONTHS

The end of last week my future was thrown into a little chaos with the news I was not going to be stopping for 3 months in Ethiopia.  Outlined in previous entries it was unsafe for me to be there on my own with Zeme out of the city working till the end of the year. 

Okay so the news was accepted and I have picked myself up and dusted myself off.  I now needed a new plan to fill in what time I was going to be in Ethiopia with something else.  The Elkins had said I was more than welcome to stay with them, but I think there is a time that your stay could be overdone and not that the Elkins live a conventional life anyway, it is their home, not mine and I had to let them get back to their routine.  I had to find something else to fill my time till the end of November.  I was always coming back to Australia on the 26th November.  I was to be back in time for my birthday and the George Michael concert that is on the 27th November so I literally had 12 weeks. 

Where the hell was I going to go?

I needed somewhere cheap, somewhere I could get to from Addis and some place, preferably, that I hadn’t been before.  That was probably the hardest requirement, somewhere I hadn’t been before.  I actually had to pull out a map and have a look at where I would be in relation to where I could go.  I was saving some places to do in the coming years, 4 places that I have always had on the cards which I had on the list straight up.  Sri Lanka, Nepal, Bhutan and Burma.  After looking at the brochures that I had got from Chermside due to cost I ruled out Burma and Bhutan quite early as they were around the 2,500 mark for 2 weeks and I really didn’t want to spend that kind of money and I think I would need more lead up time for those more ‘unusual’ countries on the list. 

I needed a ticket back to Brisbane for my November visit, so I started with getting my international tickets from London to Brisbane via Singapore and use Singapore as my hub for my Asian gateway.  There seemed to be a lot of flights that come and go from there and the cheap carriers also flew in there, so this was a great starting point.  I was surprised I could find Qantas flights from London return for 1500AUD……returning me back to London on the 27th December in time to attend a wedding on the 28th of friends from my South American tour.  Maybe I was just too busy to be in Addis at this time anyway???  Then the fun began with where I could fly to cheaply from Singapore and I was surprised on just how cheap the flights were.

Phuket came straight up as an option as I had been invited to a wedding there a few months ago but had declined on the fact that I would have only been in Addis for 3 weeks before I would have had to left again.  Well I touched base with the bride and I was lucky enough to be re-instated on the wedding attendance list and I was back in.  My first stop was going to be Thailand.  I have been to Phuket before but I haven’t done the north with Chang-Mai and Chang-Rai and started to look at group tours of the country but I have to say, I have done the surrounding countries and to just tour Thailand didn’t sound that exciting to me and there seemed to be a lot of hiking which was also not up my alley, so I canned that idea and have decided to spend 11 nights sunning and cocktailing till Shelly, Shane, the girls and the Randall’s arrive in late September for us to hang out for 5 days over the course of the wedding celebrations.  This was a great start and to see the girl’s faces when I told them I was now coming to Phuket was priceless.  I also received an email from my brother and he and Karla will also be in Phuket for a week during my stay, so I will have some friendly faces to see and by the sounds of it some babysitting duties as well.  Lucky my nephew Noah is a cutie xx. 

Sri-Lanka was also on the list and that section just seemed to come together.  Intrepid have tours running nearly every 2 weeks over that period that I was looking at, so this was going to be the flexible part of my plans as I had a wad of dates to choose from and it is one of those tours that will run with just one person, so no issues of it getting cancelled.  I would prefer other people on the trip, but if not I get a very personal tour of the country for 2 weeks.  There are 2 camping nights involved, but the rest are in guesthouses and hotels so I am really looking forward to this component as it has always been on my travel bucket list.  I require a visa for Sri Lanka but it is like the USA visa’s now and is applied and paid for online and you get a confirmation number, so I will get around to doing that in the next few days.

Looking at a map, I looked at other Asian destinations that I hadn’t been to and the Philippines and North/South Korea came up on the radar.  I don’t think that I was up for Korea, the South or the North come to think of it, but the Philippines looked tempting with Jetstar Asia flying that route for 160AUD return it made it that much more appealing.  I have heard the beaches of the Philippines are spectacular and coming from 2 weeks in Phuket and surrounds it just makes sense to head to some more beaches I think.  How many nights here will be based on what I book next and what dates those tours start but I will be in the capital for a few days and then head to Cebu or Boracay, which are supposed to be some of the most beautiful beaches in the world.  I ideally I would have like to have done a tour here but the tours don’t seem to run over the second half of the year which makes me believe I am not there at the best time of year, but I will just make the best of whatever weather is thrown my way.  I did see an Adventure World independent package that looked pretty good, so I may just book onto that that gives me 3 islands and Manila.  I am excited about this destination.

My other ‘must’ destination was Nepal.  I am not a trekker and I maybe the only person in the world that wants to go to this country that doesn’t want to climb Mt Everest and it was actually quite hard to find a tour that didn’t have Everest Base Camp or the Annapurna Trek in their itineraries.  I am not a hiker or trekker, never have been and I am not about to start now.  I did find a great overland tour with Intrepid for 16 days that encompassed the east of India and Nepal but with the days ticking by, when I looked into obtaining an Indian visa I wouldn’t have enough time here in Australia or in London to get one, so that ruled out that tour and I found instead a 100% 2 week tour of Nepal with a trek included.  The only downside to this tour is there is 1.5 days of rafting in the itinerary.  Same as trekking I am NOT a rafter either, not a small boat person actually, but after Ellen made the call to Intrepid there is no other way to get to the next stop without rafting, so I am going to suck it up, this is why we travel, and I will now sit in a raft for a day and a bit over 2-3 graded rapids.  Apparently it is great for beginners; yeah well I will be the judge of that and report back to you all.  The last time I was in a raft was 12 years ago when I did it in Austria on my first Contiki Tour.  I am sure that will make an interesting blog entry…..  I need a visa for Nepal but after checking the Consulates web site in London I will be able to get one issued within 48 hours.  Since I don’t need to get an Ethiopian one beforehand now this shouldn’t be an issue and as a backup I can always get one in Bangkok and fly up for the day from Phuket.  It was all too hard for the Indian visa process.  The Nepal tour also runs with just one person, so hopefully there will be more than just me, but I don’t have to worry about cancelled tours…..   

So that brings me to the 15 November and with promises and commitments to be back in Oz on the 26th November I have a week to work out what I am going to do.  I can either come back to Australia early, head back to Ethiopia to make sure Zeme gets on the plane to come for his visit, hit London for the week or just chill in Singapore.  This is the only thing I have left to sort out and I guess there is no immediate rush as it is for November.  So all that was organized in 4 days.  I did a lot of leg work myself so when I rang the office this morning I knew exactly what I wanted, times of flights, trip codes and costs.  I rekon I would have made a great travel agent!!!!!  So thanks to Ellen who got onto it all for me today with booking the tours and checking some of the flights.  I hope to get it all tidied up tomorrow and then I will know exactly where and what I will be doing for the next 3 months.

That brings me back to Australia in November where I will be home for 4 weeks and then I will fly back to the UK for a week for a wedding in London and New Year’s Eve and then a flight from London back to Ethiopia for the 4th time and hopefully final time, well for a while anyway. 

My next 4 months in overview:
9 August-01 September UK and Scotland
01 September-11 September Ethiopia
11 September-27 September Phuket
27 September-14 October Sri Lanka
14 October-24 October Philippines
24 October-14 November Nepal
14 November-26 November **TBA**
26 November-27 December Brisbane, Australia
27 December-06 January UK, London

Not a bad little itinerary if I say so myself…….. 
So another classic example of the silver lining to a grey grey cloud.  I can’t complain and it will help pass the time till I get to see Zeme in November before my move to Ethiopia in January.  The timings between seeing Zeme doesn’t seem so bad after this last stint of nearly 6 months, a walk in the park and a fresh start to a fresh year. 


THE HIGHS AND LOWS OF MY LAST WEEK

Well the week started out like you would expect with only 10 days till I left on my Ethiopian Odyssey via the UK for 3 weeks.  I was getting the last bits I needed for my trip, speaking to Zeme, spending time with the girls and generally just starting to pack up my room and finalize my backpack and the bags that would be sent to Addis Ababa after I arrived.

Tessie was home sick on Monday, which there is nothing worse than a sick kid but the upside was that we got to spend all day together playing Snap and Go Fish and watching the Olympics on TV.  I was okay in getting the flu like symptoms from Tessie but I was hoping that I would escape the conjunctivitis which was the main thing that was keeping Tess at home as it is highly contagious.  Foot note: I escaped the conjunctivitis but the whole family was hit by the sniffles, runny noses and a dreadful cough.  Hopefully that is my ‘flu’ done with this year……

Tuesday was Movie Day and our date with Big Mike, um I mean Magic Mike.  We had a high expectation of the movie and with our popcorn and frozen coke in hand we pretty much watched a soft porn movie, with not much of a story line, but plenty of butts and boobs on show through the whole movie.  I have to say Matthew McConaghy was hilarious and it was worth seeing for the ‘acts’ of the show but that was pretty much all.  Lucky it was ‘tight arse Tuesday’ and I will miss these days spent with my best friend.  Our last movie date is next week and we did want to see The Sapphires, but it starts the day after I leave so we are going to watch the dance movie Step Up.  The shorts to this looks pretty good and I think a good movie to finish on.  I spent the rest of the afternoon getting my final bits and pieces.  I got another Australian Sim card to add to my stash in case I lose the one I have or my phone gets stolen.  I had to get a new pair of bathers a few tops and I also received some information that it is hard to get a good blanket in Addis, so I bought a new doona, a few towels to get us through initially, a docking station for my IPad as I am going to take that with me this time, a lantern as the power can be temperamental at times, a thermometer and the big purchase of the day was a new camera.  I know it always seems like I am buying camera’s, but they get a lot of use and unfortunately the camera I bought in Frankfurt in March broke on my last night in Melbourne and it won’t focus on anything.  It is a shame as that was a really good camera.  So I got another point and shoot to replace that one, as you do need a big camera as well as a small one-this is a definite on any packing list.  I am still waiting on more details on what to bring, if anything, but I think I have 98% of everything I need.      

Zeme and I have been speaking the last few weeks about how my arrival coincides with peak season in Ethiopia, which was never an issue.  But now there are tours booked and Zeme can only get a week off for my arrival due to this fact.  So to start with I could be in Addis on my own for a few weeks each month for a few months depending on the tours booked till early next year.  I do know a few other people who live in Addis now (Zeme’s friends) that could help me out while Zeme was away, but he really wasn’t happy that I would be there on my own.  It would be a little daunting that I could be starting out without Zeme by my side but I am going to have to stand on my own two feet anyway right?  The main questions that I have are how will I get around when the drivers and tuk tuks don’t speak English? Where will we be living?  Will I be near other Expats?  If so, do they speak English?  Will we be somewhere I could at least walk safely to get some exercise?  Will there be a supermarket nearby?  Can we get internet connected quickly?  I have a lot of questions that I will only get the answers to once I get there and I find that all a little scary.  I think part of it is because I am a planner and I just can’t do anything till after my first stint there.  All part of the experience but I can be a little scared at the same time.  I could handle all this, but it came to light on Wednesday that there is some political unrest in the capital and if I stayed in Addis on my own it was strongly against the advice of Zeme.  My world seemed to crumble right before me.  I have been looking forward to this day for 132 days which was when I left Ethiopia last time in March.  It really was devastating news.  I spoke to Zeme on the phone that night and I could hear it in his voice, so I had to trust his judgment and as much of a blow as it was, I have to respect that.  But what the hell am I to do now? 

I was an emotional mess already coping with my good-bye’s here at home, the unknown into Addis and now the final straw of the delay-ment.  When I spoke to Zeme he could still get the 10 days off for my original arrival date, so I was jumping at that, I already had flights, so I still get to see my guy for 10 nights and then after that I have no idea.  I was going to get brochures from an agent tomorrow and start to work out what I can do with my time for the 3 months I now have spare.  Shelly and Shane kindly told me I was more than welcome to stay with them, but I hate to over stay my welcome anywhere and adding on another 3 months to their lives was out of the question for me as they have opened their home to me and I hate to take advantage of that.  I felt 150% better after speaking to Zeme, I can’t change the fact that the city is unsafe without him, so I need to look to the good points which is I get another 3 months to see this beautiful world we live in, I still get to see Zeme for 2 weeks and hopefully in November and with the destinations I have in mind crank my tan back up again.  Oh yes, things could be a lot worse and I am a big believer that all things happen for a reason so I need to offer it all up and just see what transpires over the coming months.  But I am SUPER excited to see Zeme in September. 

My week got 2 surprise highlights which was just what I needed.  I received a small gift and card from my tentie in New Zealand wishing me luck for my journey and also some presents for the girls as well.  Always so thoughtful.  This is why I miss you so much Morphie and I will wear the necklace as a good talisman for my next legs of travel, whatever that maybe and another card arrived from Canberra and another 2 fellow African travelers wishing me a bon voyage and enclosed was a 50AUD I-tunes voucher.  The card was amazing and I nearly lost it reading it and my favorite quote from the card was that ‘fortune favors the brave’.  This hit a chord with me for some reason and I just had to let some tears slide down my face.  I hope what I was doing was the right thing.  What else would I be doing if I didn’t extend my travel?  I am homeless, jobless and carless.  I can’t sit around for another 4 months in Brisbane, as tempting as it sounds, I just can’t.  So thank-you to Lisa, Em and Lou.  You guys rock, thank-you for your thoughtfulness, your caring ways, your friendship and your gifts.  These are the type of people I have met on my trips and this is what I am always eternally grateful for every day.  You can’t put a price on that.      

So Thursday was a hustle to get brochures, mostly of Asia, as I need somewhere cheap to spend my time and I picked up the Intrepid Africa brochure as I would love to do the West Africa trip they have in there, but the dates don’t work out for me this time, which I think maybe a sign and I will pour over the brochures methodically in the next few days.  I need to have some kind of plan in place before I leave.  I told you I am a planner from way back and this gives me something to sink my teeth into so I don’t have too much time to think about things too much.  My packing has to change a little and a few things will need to come out of the pack now as I think my destinations won’t require a hair straightener, as many dresses and a few more ‘workable’ shirts than ‘nice’ daily tops.  Slight adjustments, but I will need to re-think it all again early next week.  I also wasn’t going to take any sneakers, but I think I am going to have to find room for those buggers now as well. 

Friday I was in a better frame of mind.  I had accepted all the information, I can’t change the facts a few positive messages on Facebook from friends and I was back on track.  If this is the worst thing to happen to me then I think I am still in a pretty good place.  There were tours and flights that didn’t seem too expensive and that were going to work in date wise and I decided to just enjoy my final few days with friends with a smile on my dial and everything would work out-it may just be hard for me to see it immediately, which is the way I normally like to roll.  We had a date with James Reyne to see him in concert tonight and a night spent with 8 of my friends and it turned out to be a great night.  We even managed to get our photo taken with him which he didn’t seem to be too tickled about.  We had our funky glasses to boot and even though we drank like fish we were home by 12.30am to relive the babysitters, which was a blessing in disguise otherwise it could have been quite messy waking up on Saturday morning.  Maybe the key is to party hard early and make it home by a decent hour and there maybe, just maybe, some hope that you won’t wake up feeling like you have been run over by a truck or that your teeth have little furry shoes on them.  Maybe I said…….

Saturday was a morning of recovery for me and then the afternoon was a surprise for me from Sandy and Shelly to spend my last Saturday with 2 of my best friends.  They didn’t tell me where we were going, they only told me to dress warm and smart casual and that was it.  We were going to go from our secret location to the football that night, so we had to make sure we had warm stuff as it has been so cold this week with lows of 2C at night all week.  So we got dropped at this non-descript street in the Valley, with no shops or people walking around and we entered a building where a girl asked if we were after the rooftop and told us to hit floor 5 in the elevator.  We arrived at the Lime Bar which was a patio bar overlooking Fortitude Valley.  We were the only people there, but since when do we need other people to have a good time?  The gals had booked a girly package that came with a few drinks and a plate of nibbles where we sat and drank cocktails the afternoon away with the warm sun on our faces and a slight breeze as we sat in the sun; I have to say it was an amazing afternoon.  We were joined by 2 gentlemen from Melbourne who were staying at the hotel for a few hours till they had to leave, but boy what a nice way to spent my last Saturday in Brisvegas.  That is why I didn’t let the 18AUD cocktails upset me, but I did mention a few times that the cost of 2 cocktails would give an African child a hot meal for lunch for a year.  Maybe I am a little hypocritical…..  Maybe not……

Saturday was also Zeme’s birthday.  It is a little frustrating that Ethiopia is 7 hours behind us, so I had to wait till after 6pm to call to wish him a happy birthday.  I am getting great value out of my Optus sim card that I bought during the week.  It was 30AUD for the sim card but it came with 30 bucks of calls.  I have spoken to Zeme like 4 times this week and each call (maybe 8-10 minutes) is only costing me around 5 bucks.  Can’t argue with that cost.  I had also sent him a birthday card 4 weeks ago and he received it yesterday.  It also contained a handmade card from the girls and also some of the business cards that I had made up, so he was pleasantly surprised!!!  It is always great to hear his voice.  The footy was a little bit of a blur for the three of us after consuming like 6 cocktails each but we somehow happened to be thirsty consuming another 3 vodka and cokes while attempting to watch the game as we chatted and laughed our way through the 2.5 hours. 

I know I have said it before but it really was a great way to top off what was a roller coaster of a week for me.  I am so lucky I have such a great backup of friends here and this is what I will miss when I finally make it to Ethiopia.  But there is also proof that new friends can be made in travels or where you work, or where you live and Em, Lisa and Lou are examples of these people that you met and at times can be life changing. 

I have a new chapter about to start next Wednesday, it may not have been what I had originally planned, but it is a new chapter all the same and I still need to be grateful for the position that I find myself in.  Things that don’t kill us make us stronger and you still need to make the most every moment even though it may not be in your original planning.    

My Ethiopian Odyssey may have been postponed but my World Odyssey gets a renewed life for a few more months.  

Thursday, August 2, 2012

DEVASTATED ……BUT EVERY CLOUD HAS A LINING….

“Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.” 
 Dr. Seuss

So what’s happened? 

Let’s set the scene.  I am leaving for the UK in 5 days and arriving into Ethiopia in 30 days.  I had just gone to the shops yesterday and bought some essential house hold items (quilt, towels, lantern) and I get the news that my trip to Ethiopia has to be delayed till early (very early next year)

So what’s happened?

During the last week Zeme and I have been in communication on the final arrangements for my arrival into Addis Ababa on the 2nd of September.  He initially asked his work place if he could have 3 months off, to get us settled and this included his trip to Australia in November.  They have been very accommodating so far with his leave and this time it didn’t work in our favor and the answer was no.  They would permit him to take his last 7 days of annual leave when I arrived but that was all they were willing to give.  I need to point out that it is now high season in Ethiopia, this is when the tourists come and this is where the tourism industry in the country makes its money with the tips of all their happy clients.  I understand this and I was also okay with the plan that Zeme needs to make the most of high season and then we lay new plans for work next year.  As long as we could find somewhere to live in that first week, I could cope for the initial 3 weeks on my own while he was out on a tour.  I could book in some language courses, get some exercise and just get stuck into my new life.  I would have to become independent at some stage; it was just going to be earlier than I had anticipated.

But last night Zeme sent the message that there is political unrest currently in the country and also in Addis Ababa and Zeme wasn’t happy that I was going to be there on my own while he was away on tour.  It just wasn’t safe for me.  I was thinking how bad could it be and that I could manage, but I checked the DFAT web site and they are telling Australians ‘to defer all non-essential travel’ and it was ranked  4 out of 5 on the scale, the second highest.  They mentioned   Civil unrest/political tension (on 14 and 15 July 2012, demonstrations reportedly took place in the Mercato Market area of Addis Ababa where some deaths and injuries were reported.  I also had a friend message me only a few days ago telling me about the unrest that he had read in online new articles.  I said there was nothing to worry about as I am sure that Zeme and friends would let me know if it was that bad.  Well it is that bad.

I was totally devastated.
This was the hum dinger of all spanners.

So I jumped on the phone and rang Zeme and we had a good chat, discussed it all and I could just hear it in his voice that he was sincerely worried for my safety.  So with my ticket already booked, I am still going to head into Addis for 9 days, use Zeme’s last available leave days and then I have to find somewhere to go for the next 10 weeks before I am due back home in Australia again at the end of November with the hope that Zeme can make 2 weeks in December and then I will fly back in January to Ethiopia to attempt round 2 and my 4th visit back to this marvelous country.  I will also be heading into low season at this time and his work will give him more time around this time.  As heartbreaking as it all is, it just makes too much sense.  But man it is still a MAJOR bummer.

As I try more and more these days to see the positive side out of a sucky situation this one is no different.  One: I still get to see Zeme.  Two: He hopefully will still make it to Australia in November. Three: I get to keep on travelling for another 2.5 months and Four: if this is the worst thing to happen to me in the next 6 months then I have nothing to complain about.  I have a friend who is only 26 years old with breast cancer and a friend who lost his job this week.  Yes things could be a lot worse for me, so I will not complain and I will not shed another selfish tear for myself. 

So on a brighter note; if you know me, I have a plan in place.  It took me a while to work out where I wanted to go, it is a big world out there but made a lot smaller with my last 15 months of travel.  BUT in saying that my plan is currently:
Addis Ababa to Phuket and spend 15 nights and attend a friend’s wedding to boot
Phuket to Sri Lanka for a 15 day Intrepid tour
Sri Lanka to Manila and Cebu for 10 nights
…..and so far that is as far as I have gotten.  I still have another 28 days to account for but the flights are all cheap, accommodation is super cheap in Phuket (20-30AUD a night) and with the cost of living cheap I think this will be a great alternative to kill some time.  I will be able to get some rays, suck some cocktails and read some books.  Yeah I really don’t have much to complain about do I?  All this worked into a 1500AUD return airfare from London to Australia (for November) and return at Christmas as I now also have a wedding to attend to in London on the 28th December.  I think I may have been too busy to stay in Addis these 3 months anyway!!

So that has summed up my last 24 hours that went from a low of lows in the realization I have to wait longer to get settled in Ethiopia to a happy (as can be) place based on the circumstances.  I think if I wasn’t seeing Zeme at all in September it would be a lot harder to handle and the visit in November will keep me happy (as can be) till January.  I know Zeme was talking February, basing it on work commitments rather than a safety based option.  But I truly think if it is meant to be then it is meant to be and things that don’t kill us make us stronger.

I now have 5 days to book it all in before I leave on Wednesday and I am in a much happier place then where I have been all week as it has all been tossed back and forth. 

Life is an opportunity, benefit from it.
Life is beauty, admire it.
Life is a dream, realize it.
Life is a challenge, meet it.
Life is a duty, complete it.
Life is a game, play it.
Life is a promise, fulfill it.
Life is sorrow, overcome it.
Life is a song, sing it.
Life is a struggle, accept it.
Life is a tragedy, confront it.
Life is an adventure, dare it.
Life is luck, make it.
Life is too precious, do not destroy it.
Life is life, fight for it.” 
 Mother Teresa
         

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

MY SECOND LAST WEEK… WHERE HAS THE TIME GONE


The reality of coming into my second last week hits me.  That means I have been back for 5 weeks.  Take out the week I went to Darwin and Melbourne that is still a month, a fabulous month at home with the girls and just recharging my batteries and preparing as much as I can for my next leg of my journey.  I think I have started each blog entry with some form of how fast my time has been going…… 

So we are now starting to prepare the girls that there is only 15 sleeps left till I leave and to see their little faces register that I am leaving again is heart breaking.  At least there is light at the end of the tunnel for them as they understand I will back for Christmas and in their eyes (and ours) it really isn’t that far off.  This in turn brings me back to the reality that I am leaving everything I have ever known and going to a place and experiencing something completely new, everything will be a new experience for me.  People who know me well know I am a creature of habit, so this is definitely outside my comfort zone, but it just seems right.  Whether things work with Zeme or not, I feel this is the road that I am supposed to take.  I keep saying I have come back a changed person and it is hard to explain how and why, but I am, and I see everything through new eyes and I keep harping on about time and how it is so precious, but it is and please, please enjoy every second you have with what you do and whom you are with.   

I also need to start prepping my stuff as I figure out what I am going to need for my first 3 months in Addis.  With tickets booked, Zeme booking a hotel for the first week when I arrive and a visa I will need to apply for when I am in London it all looks like it is coming together.  I have messaged Z plus Minalu to see if there are things that I need to bring from here (expenses in buying things there) to which I am still waiting for replies.  I went and bought my stash of goodies during the week that will be sent in one of the un-accompanied bags the week I arrive into Addis.  I spent 110 bucks on boxes of BBQ Shapes, Tim Tams, Cheds, Twisties, Mint Slices and Burger Rings.  It sounds a little extreme, but a little bit of comfort food will help on those days that I get a little home sick…..  I have a cheapie bag that I have started to fill with essentials and then closer to departure day I will pack it all properly for its unaccompanied ride to Ethiopia.  I am thinking of getting the bags plastic wrapped at the airport, not so much for security but for the protection of the cheapie bags.  Shelly pointed out if I get the stuff sent in suitcases what do I do with them once I get to Addis re: room etc….  Good point.

My days are now full of lunch dates as I try and squeeze in as many people to see as I can before I leave in 14 days.  I have 3 places to be on Saturday.  Afternoon tea with work gals, BBQ with the Elkin clan and friends and then a night on the town with party friends.  If I can get through that day then I can get through just about anything while I am here.  I have something on each day this week and then next week is looking just as busy.  It is a tough life meeting people for lunches, but as I have said before somebody has to do it right!  I am starting to feel a little yucky with all the food I have been gorging on for the last month as I make the most of all my favorite foods while I can.  I am hoping that I may be able to shake a little of the weight in Addis as there are no major fast food chains, no McDonalds, no Subway and no KFC or Burger Kings but at this point I am relishing the thought as I rekon I have put on at least 5kg since being home.         

I haven’t used the hire car for the last 5 days but you just never know when you will need a set of wheels and at 30 bucks a day, it isn’t like it is costing me too much to have it out the front.  Don’t tell the car hire company but I still get a little dis-orientated on what side to drive when I turn corners after travelling so long on the opposite side of the road.  I will have to get used to it as Ethiopia drive on the same side as the USA (opposite to us) so once I start driving there and there here I am sure I will be even more confused than what I am now.   Speaking of car hire companies I followed up the email sent about the damage apparently done to the car hire I had in Darwin.  I was all armed with all my questions and counter answers till they told me what the problem was and I really couldn’t have a leg to stand on.  They found a nail in the tyre and it had to be replaced at a cost of $55. What can I say to that?  It was a mixture of relief that it only cost $55 and of frustration as I drove that car all weekend, I must have driven over the nail on the way to drop the car off as the tyre would have gone down while I still had it.  It is pretty damn unlucky and just have to be happy with a 55 buck loss.  It could have been a lot worse.  Needless to say I went through the new rental I picked up in Brisbane with a fine tooth comb for my last 19 day rental.  This company also seems a lot more thorough and walks you around the car together, check the odometer and fuel gauge before they set you on your way. 

No matter what happens during the week Tuesday is movie day with Shelly while the girls are at school.  We catch a morning movie so we are finished with plenty of time for a school pickup at 2.30pm.  Also known as tight arse Tuesday as the tickets are only $10 on Tuesday’s.  We wanted to see magic Mike this week but it doesn’t start till next week.  We had a look at all the other movies that were showing and nothing really appealed to us so we decided to download a movie at home and have a movie day at home.  We both had wanted to see Bridesmaids, so for $3.99 we rented the movie from iTunes.  Shelly wasn’t to be beaten and for me she did a popcorn run to the actual cinema and also got me a frozen coke while she was there, what a great best friend I have.  Gee we have a tough life while the gals are at school. Never fear Magic Mike is on the cards for next week. 

I have made a final list of things I have to get.  When I pre-packed for my Odyssey I did it quite late and found I had far too much stuff in the ‘want to take’ pile and I was a little rushed.  I also found packing so late I kept buying things I really didn’t need on the lead up to the final pack and had accumulated so much stuff.  I am lucky I am not backpacking as such on my trip this time around.  Yes I do have a backpack but I am not traversing the Africa continent in a tent and an overland truck, I am not circumnavigation the South American continent in a truck, I am staying with friends, nights out at dinner and then moving to Africa where I can wear normal clothes and not have to look like a drifter so I can take some decent clothes to the UK and Ethiopia.  I am starting to get a little daunted by the massive task I have when I come home at Christmas with a whole household of stuff in a shipping container that I will need to sift through and sort out.  Oh well no use worrying about that now, but it is going to be a monumental job that is for sure upon my return.

As crazy as it sounds I need to start looking at booking our flights back to Brisbane at Christmas.  I am hoping that Zeme will be able to join me finally this time as I will be in Addis Ababa to help facilitate his visa and finally get him to Australia to meet my friends.  The question will be how much time he can get off work.  Ideally it would be great to be the whole 5 weeks I am looking at returning for, if not then I will take what I can get.  I have made a temporary booking at work and will then discuss this all with Zeme when I arrive.  To throw a little wave in this plan was I got a message during the week from a couple in the UK who have gotten engaged and asked if I would be able to make the wedding for the last week in December meaning that I only need to cut my trip home short by 8 days, fly to the UK for a week to attend the wedding and then head back into Ethiopia the first week of January.  I had a look at airfares and I can add on London for only an additional $300.  The question begs if Zeme can come (more time off work) and we would also need to get him a visa for the UK.  Once again there isn’t too much I can do re all this till I see him and run it all past him.  

Thursday morning was a real tear jerker.  I was down in my room and Tessie came down the on her own accord and had a stuffed toy and a zsu zsu pet in her hands and then gave them to me asking if I could take them to Ethiopia with me and give them to some children that don’t have any toys.  I only just held it all together and then I sat with her and told her that was very very generous of her and that the children in Ethiopia would be very thankful for the gifts and that I would make sure that they knew the presents came from a little girl called Tess in Australia.  The girls are so solemn when they ask questions about Ethiopia and the people who live there.  When I explained that there are children who would never get presents like this, Tessie left the room and came back 10 minutes later with 6 dolls and some clothes to dress them in.  So the 8 precious items have been added to ‘the bags that are getting sent’ pile and they will be shipped once I arrive into Addis.  I don’t know why, but I really was seriously holding back the tears as this innocent 5 year old looked up at me as we try and change some-ones little world for the better with some simple gifts and a smile to boot.  If this is how I am going to feel every time I help some-one less fortunate than me then I DEFINETLY know I am making the right move, it was so rewarding and that was with Tessie.  This goodbye feels so much more sadder than my first one, which is strange as I am coming back in 3 months where the last time it was for 15 months. I guess the girls are older and they are also like my little friends now and there reactions as they count down my last week’s makes my heart weep and this move is more permanent, even though I will be back for 4 weeks, it is a final move, no matter what happens, I am staying in Africa

Saturday was a busy day.  I finally made the effort to do a ‘pre’ pack of my new backpack.  It was strange and I felt a little unfaithful as I had to find a new home for everything that just came as second nature with my original backpack.  It all fit in and I have a little bit more room to boot as I have the zip off backpack on the front that I lost on the original backpack when I was in Morocco.  It is nice to be packing ‘nice’ clothes and no ‘backpacking’ clothes as I am only in the UK for 3 weeks and then straight into Addis where I have some bags sent with more appropriate clothes for Africa.  I also started to sort what was going to go in the unaccompanied bags.  Clothes is the major filler, but I am also taking some towels, a quilt and cover set, my Australian munchies and some small souvenirs.  I really have no clue on what can and can’t be bought there, so as long as I have some basics, 12 weeks isn’t that long to go without something or worst case scenario I can get Shelly to send stuff as it only takes 4-7 days for things to arrive. 

Saturday afternoon was spent with the Discover crew at Bek’s house for a catch up over afternoon tea.  We all had a ‘course’ to bring as we sat and chatted the afternoon away.  I was first course with bikiies, cheese and cabana, second course was sandwiches by Beth, third course was scones, jam and cream
By Bek and fourth course was cupcakes from Danielle and Denise all washed down with some champagne supplied by Michelle and hot tea it was nice to see them all again out of the office.  Talk about a sugar fix for the afternoon though, oh well hopefully that will stand me in good stead for this evenings drinking session……

Saturday evening was back home to the Elks for an Olympic BBQ and a few drinks.  Shelly and I said the night before that we would wake up at 5.30am this morning to watch the opening ceremony, well I did get a wake up nudge at 5.45am and told Michelle I would be up in a few minutes and the preceded to roll over and went back to sleep.  I did manage to see all the countries walk out and even gave a big cheer for the 12 members of the Ethiopian contingent as they entered the stadium.  So the Olympic coverage continued in the evening as we had Foxtel, we were lucky to have 8 channels to watch as we caught up and had a few drinks.  Paula and Tracey were coming over for dinner and then we were going to head into town for a bit of a boogie and a few more drinks… of course.  When it was time to head to The Caxton, I was able to talk Shells into coming out for a little while (a curfew of 1.15am) and the girls and I stayed out till 4am till it was time for this old duck to head home.   

So that completes my second last week in Brisbane.  I can’t believe that 5.5 weeks have passed already and I just know that next week is going to just fly by.